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New Moon & Sun in Sagittarius 22 Nov 2014

Toks Coker

Do you recognise yourself in these words?  What higher learning or vibration are you actively seeking?  This New Moon is a time to seed your desires with discernment.  It is a time to take responsibility for your actions, your thoughts and your deeds.  AND your emotions. You have a choice.  Make the choice.  Take full responsibility for your choice.  Be discerning and accountable for your choices.  Take responsibility for you and HAVE FUN doing so.  What fun are you going to have this New Moon?   New Moon in Sagittarius is happy, welcoming, inviting  you to a newness in you, a freshness in your Spirit to be inspired by YOU. 

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Moon Gathering

On 22 November I will be holding the Healing Meditation Workshop from 7pm-10pm in St Johns Wood.  We gather to celebrate the New Moon and Sun in Sagittarius.  12:33GMT.  For costing’s and venue click this link  www.newmoonsagittarius2014.eventbrite.co.uk   

Moon Healing Request Distant Healing

I will be sending DISTANT HEALING from 8pm-9pm. What would you like healing on?  Please place your request on my Facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/toks.coker#!/handsoflighthealing   Remember to please like and follow my page.  Share with friends so more people can benefit from this wonderful free opportunity.  Love Toks xxxx

Moon Gifting

IMG_2320I gift you powerful distant healing on the New Moon on Saturday 22 November between 8pm-8pm; with a wonderful visualisation below:

Gently keep a good focus on what you are wanting. Then write them down on a piece of paper. As you write them down imagine you are writing them in the sky and the words are sparkling stars. 

Now breathe that energy vortex in to your life; and to your New Moon wishes, desires and goals. 

Feel them manifesting as you close your eyes and sense the star words entering your lovely body; and seeding your wishes deep within you.  You are creating sacred space for great action in your life. 

Now feel the stars illuminate your life from inside out burning a great Spirit Fire within you.  Feel yourself light and free to move.  Let your heart sing with joy. 

Amen.  Nam Myoho Renge Kyo.   Insha Allah.  Ho and so It is.  Namaste.   Love Toks xxxx

Symbols for Sagittarius New Moon

There are many symbols for this New Moon.  We have the Archer, aiming high. 

half man half animalNew Moon in Sagittarius invites you to educate yourself and learn more. I am thinking of  Chiron, the Centaur.  Chiron is a great healer, astrology, and respected Oracle.  A highly revered teacher and tutor; he taught Achilles, Perseus, and Heracles.

He is also known as the wounded healer, half man, half horse.  He is a manifestation of all wounds that cannot be healed; and for me those that can be healed.  Chiron holds a bow and arrow aiming at his target and when he fires the arrow he hits his target. 

We have in one creation part human being and part animal.  Both animal and human beings have good and bad in them.  So there is the good and bad that humanity do to each other; and there is the good and bad that animals do to each other. We can all imagine loving pets like dogs and cats.  We can all imagine aggressive wild animals like lions and tigers.  We can all imagine loving humans and destructive humans.  We may even know some!  This duality in nature is what this energy is reflecting to us.  How we live today and how we see ourselves.  The shadow side of our personality is important to help make us whole.  Finding a balance and a control mechanism within the psyche is what balances our instincts and desires.  New Moon in Sagittarius recognises we all want to be loved and to aspire to be more than we are.  

Archangel Michael with his flaming  sword of truth and justice helps us to recover after difficulties and helps us to be victorious over obstacles of any kind.  He builds up our strength to fight another day in our lives and show proof in our lives.  Amen.  There is more on St Michael below.

TFlaming FireFire of Lifehe Element is Fire.  Sagittarius is a Fire sign, so is Leo and Aries.  Fire is action, it is leadership, it is pioneering a new way forward.  It is active and alert and visionary.  It urges us to seek something more, something higher than the Self.  Seek a more Divine You.

Fire moves upwards. It is alive dancing its dance of power and insight.  Allow it to glow and glow inside your heart and let is radiate through you and heal you and the world.  Happy Fire New Moon. 

Let the Fire of Life and the Fire of Light energise you, inspire  you to be more than you thought possible, to ignite a sparkle in you and a sparkle in your steps.  Let the New Moon Fire open up new ideas, skills, and interests that serve humanity. 

Allow your SEEKING SPIRIT and your WARRIOR SPIRIT to come out and shine.  Feed your mind, body and spirit with this wonderful New Moon.  Set off on your new journey happy and ready for life.  Set off on a new purpose in your life.  Let us start our new spiritual journey together with this New Moon. How auspicious.  I love it.

How are you going to fire up your life?  How are you going to fire up another person’s life?  Taking your bow and arrow, aim at what you want, then Fire the rainbow of your desires with focus, determination, and ferocity.  This is constructive actions that yield healing empowering results. See the seed you plant this new moon grow.  Let the Archer in you stand up.

Saha World

Fire MaskWe live in the Saha World – a world of conflict, greed, anger, stupidity, hell and animality.  We fight wars between ourselves, between countries, between groups, between cultures, and between societies.  We exterminate and ostracise.  We destroy land and people.  We have no reverence for differences.  We go against the natural rhythm of the Law of Life.  We go against the natural rhythm of Mother Earth.  We all wear various masks.  What masks do you wear?

A SHIFT is required to make changes to this attitude of passive aggressive; or ignorance the world has come to live by.  There is a deep forgetfulness on the laws of nature and the preservation of life.  There is a deep lack of respect for life and the value of life.  masks of pretence

We all know what to do; and if we do not; we can ask how we can create value in our own personal space e.g. home, outside home, community, society.  If we come together UNITED in this endeavour; we will create a world of value; living on the basis of peace, respect, reverence and true happiness.  Peace is the basis of a unified people.

The 10 Worlds in Buddhism teach us how to activate our Buddhahood to help mankind.  Within this world we really need to rise up to activate our higher self – our Buddhahood.  This happens in movies – the hero fights for his beliefs. Let us  make it happen now.   Just like the Lotus Flower that seeds and blooms at once we simultaneously change our lives with our inner thoughts.  We fire ourselves up to be more.  This is the concept of ‘Renge’, which means ‘Cause and Effect’.  I love this very much. 

Affirmation:  Starting from now with this New Moon I renew myself and my ideas and my direction.  I hold my bow and arrow and aim to hit my target; and I do. 

Sacred Spaces & Life Styles

There are various types of Sacred Spaces.  Jewish sacred space. Moslem sacred space.  Healers sacred space.  Christian sacred space.  Buddhist sacred space.  Hindus sacred space. Within each type of sacred space is a further division of types of sacred space.  Each sacred space comes with a life style.

Today I am looking with reverence at one type of Christian sacred space:  the Catholic sacred space and life style.  The picture of the man with the sword and scales is Archangel Saint Michael.  He is a protector of the people, holder of justice and preserver of Truth. 

I also looked at Fabulous Christian images, prayers.   The images alone carry great power and healing.

I found this site fascinating information-all-Catholics-should-know.  It has many list on the life style and beliefs.  It was so nicely presented.

I found one list so real for todays world of ‘slavery’ and sexual obsession and abuse:


They are: By counsel, By command, By consent, By provocation, By praise or flattery, By concealment, By partaking, By silence and By defence of the ill done.  It made me think about the various ways we passively observe the wrong that people do; and then do and say nothing!  We are silent.  We pretend we do not see it. We ignore it.  It is not being done to us.  We may think it is not nice but we do nothing to ‘correct’ it.  We do not do A RANDOM ACT OF KINDNESS (ARK).  So the question I ask you is:  “Are you as guilty as the perpetuator of the cruel act by your silence?” 

There was another list of Capital Sins (Pride, Greed, Lust, Anger, Gluttony, Envy Sloth) and Contrary Virtue (Humility, Liberality, Chastity, Meekness, Temperance, Brotherly Love and Diligence). It made me think about the 10 Worlds in Buddhism and their Mutual Possession.  The 10 Worlds are Hell, Hunger, Animality, Anger, Humanity or Tranquillity, Rapture or Heaven, Learning, Realisation, Bodhisattva, and Buddhahood.  The Buddhist sacred space is different from the Christian sacred space.  All sacred spaces have one thing in common:  They want to create value and impart happiness for self and others.

A Life Style  WCrystal Matrixe had a homeless young gentleman outside our flats sleeping in the bin!  It was horrible to observe and the smell of wee-wee in the bin area and the front of the flats was enough to fire my energy with rage.  I was just so upset about the ugliness of the environment rather than worrying about his plight.  I felt guilty, helpless and vulnerable.  I did not know what to do.  I wanted to help but I cannot invite a strange man into my flat.  As a lady I was advised not to engage with him as we do not know his history. Then I was told he was a drug addict – my imagination went all over the place.  I was in electric shock at his life condition! This was not my expertise. Then I realised that everything about him was clean and new; even though he was sleeping in the bin area.  Every time the neighbours threw his bedding away he would appear later with white clean duvet bedding.  The neighbours’ complained to the council and the police.  We had handed it over to the proper authorities to deal with this disturbance and trespass. The area was jet washed and the homeless man vanished with his plastic bags, fresh clean clothes and bedding.  I felt a sense of relief.  I made a prayer for all the homeless people.  I asked for forgiveness for my thoughts and actions; as well as, my feeling of vulnerability in my inability to help him personally.  So I am reminded of events in our lives that happen to us; that we can effect; and those we cannot effect.  We cannot save everyone if their choice is to do what they want to do.  We can pray for them and wish them happiness. We MUST remember to give gratitude for our own lives; that we are not in this state or life condition.  Amen. Namaste.  To have a Sacred Space in your home and outside your home is a matter of choice.  How you go about achieving this is also a matter of choice.  May all your choices bring you peace.  Amen.

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Great World Incantation & Invocation Blessing

New Moon and Sun in Sagittarius

22 November 2014 by Toks Beverley Coker  © Toks Coker 2014

Newness Incantation

I Greet You

With the Gift of Newness

Singing Great Incantations

Blessing to Your Ears

I Greet You. 

passages to knowledge

I Greet You

With the Gift of Study

Walking the Walls of Knowledge

Noble Champion of Life

I Greet You

new beginnings

I Greet You

With the Gift of Enchantment

Planting New Seeds

Making Life Happen

I Greet You

I Greet You

With the Angel of Sparkling Stars

Glowing Happily Around You

Seeding Great Seeds of Newness

I Greet You

I Greet You

With Your Magical Weapons

Firmly Held in Your Hands

Protecting You from Evil

I Greet You

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I Greet You

With the Gift of Sacred Geometry

Allowing Your Sacred Self

To Journey and Heal

I Greet You

Looking at SelfLooking at Self Reflection

I Greet You

With the Gift of Love Reflection

Looking into the Mirror of Your Eyes

Opening Your Heart to the Newness of You: the Sacred Love You Seek

I Greet You

We Greet You

I Greet You

With the Fire Dance

Illuminating Your Essence

In the Magnificence of You

I Greet You

Loving the Child in YouPhenominal You

I Greet You

With the Gift of Healing

Protectively Holding & Nurturing You

Allowing Chiron to Heal your Pain

I Greet You

Singing Your Song

I Greet You

With the Anointment of Your Being

Strengthening Your Portal of Life

In the Sacredness of Kindness

I Greet You

Katie Young

I Greet You

With the Archangel Michael

Protecting You Lovingly

Giving You Strength in All You Do

I Greet You

Golden Eagle

I Greet You

With the Golden Eagle

Firing Movement of Life

In the Evolution of Your Soul

I Greet You

3 powerful wands

I Greet You

With the Wands of Truth

Making Your Life Safe

Giving Energy and Wisdom

I Greet You

I Greet You

I Greet You

I Greet You 

I Greet You

Channelled by Toks Beverley Coker for the New Moon and Sun in Sagittarius 22/11/2014

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Benefits of Sacred Circle Moon Gathering

Many come to energise their lives and empower their own vortex.  Some take away insights and messages they can carry out later in their ‘real’ life.  There is a feeling of lightness of spirit, confidence and hope and safety; with a feeling of being protected and loved in a sacred space.  This pours out into their daily life and helps them to live more happy fulfilled lives. 

Jo Mannel says:  I came because I was curious.  During the processes I became aware of my body moving.  I was moved by the energy and the power of the crystals, both physically and spiritually.  I arrived exhausted and sad; and I am leaving with light.  I feel happier and lighter. 

Maria Fotia says:  I am taking away all the conscious messages and unconscious downloads.  I love the energy and felt the energy in my heart palpitations physically.  I loved the beautiful downloads.  I loved the crystal vortex and I loved creating it together; and then walked around it to connect with it.  It was beautiful.  My power is to see through the illusion and I do that with ease and I am free.

Yvonne wrote:  I found it light and energetic.  I feel alert.  I always read the blessing and love to read them before bedtime.   I am doing a lot of meditation at present.  I am trying to stay in the now.  I am seeing more and listening more carefully. 

Victoria Walker wrote:  I love the blog.Red heartThe workshop we did was extensive work and eye opening.  i meditate 3-4 times a week.

Claire says:  I loved the face that we set up the Sacred Crystal Portal together. We shared the energy.  I love your room.  So many things to look at and so many sacred things to engage with.  There are many things we can relate to. Thank you very much.  It was nice to give something back to my nan.  My nan was very strong and liked going out to functions and going out to buy hats to go out.  My power is working with the energy of youth to activate a higher dimension for them to know what is right and what is wrong; and not follow stars and singers blindly.  It is to lead and help purify the world. 

Paola says:  I loved the fact we worked with sacred symbol of the spirals.  I came for the cat and ended up thinking about my great mother during this ancestors moon. I need to thank you for doing this.  Nice to have a moon ceremony in London.  I do not need to go to Ireland. I enjoyed the breathing and saying the words in our heart rather than our minds.  My power is living the impossible because I am possible.

Quote for New Moon in Sagittarius

They tried to bury us.  They didn’t know we were seeds.  Mexican Proverb

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 My friend Carole Railton sells 3D Fiber Lashes Mascara that are easy to use and make your lashes look longer and  very natural.  You can order directly from here:  www.youniqueproducts.com/carolerailton

Send me a picture when you have used them.  You will be amazed at how wonderful and easy they are to use. 

They are simply extraordinary for Christmas and New Year.  Carole says you can even organise a party and make some cash yourself!  Enjoy your New Present to yourself with this New Moon. 

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  1. Light 10 candles and bring in your realisations. 
  2. Light a candle for your father.  Greet the male energy with reverence. 
  3. Call in the energy of St Michael and ask for his assistance in your life.
  4. Look at each crystal picture of the Crystal Matrix and receive the healing from each picture and write the message each picture brings / sends to you.  Gift yourself a newness and a fullness.

December Celebration with Toks xxx  

  1. Saturday 6 December 2014 is RainbowFull Moon in Gemini with Sun in Sagittarius (Cold Moon).  It will occur at 12:27 GMT London.  Element Air/Fire  We will gather together at 7pm to celebrate the Full Moon. For more details and to book, click here:www.fullmoongemini2014.eventbrite.co.uk
  2. Sunday 21 December is WINTER SOLSTICE We will be in France celebrating this. 
  3. Monday 22 December 2014 is StarNew Moon & Sun in Capricorn.  It will be at 01:37 GMT London.   Element: Earth  We will be in France during this time so link in to the meditation.  For more details and to book, click here:www.newmooncapricorn2014.eventbrite.co.uk
  4. Wednesday 31 December is NEW YEARS EVE.  I will be holding a NEW YEAR ENTRY PORTAL on the 31 December from 10pm – 1am in my flat.  It will be a powerful portal and a wonderful gathering.  I will ask for a donation which will go to the Royal Institute of the Blind.   Please bring something to share (food with no pork please, drinks).  Please bring with you a NEW YEAR PRESENT to gift one person. We will then close our eyes and start the New Year with a present from Spirit. 

Some December Celebrations

1    St Andrew’s Day (Scotland)

5    Buddha’s Day    / Last day of Hanukkah

8    Feast of the Immaculate Conception

17  First Day of Hanukkah


24  Christmas Eve     / Last day of Hanukkah

25  Christmas Day BANK HOLIDAY

26  BOXING DAY    / St Stephen’s Day

27  USA Thanks Giving


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With Celestial Blessings and Love Toks xxxxxxx

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New Moon in Virgo 05/09/2013

Happy New Moon in Virgo  5 September 2013

Happy Birthday Virgo

What practical things are you doing in your life right now; that you like/do not like; but you need to do them to help you get to the next level? Use this time to help you to do things effectively, efficiently and precisely.  Call in the energy of happy working to achieve your goals with practical earthy steps that are easy to do and you flow doing them. 

Receiving in the Now

On the Menu we have:menu

  1. Invocation Blessing for New Moon in Virgo 05/09/2013
  2. ENERGY OF NOW: Happy New Moon in Virgo  (Element: Earth)
    1. Celestial Energy & Solar Energy
    2. Benefits of Solar Energy
    3. Scientist on Solar Energy
    4. Going for Supervision
    5. Self Talk – Negative & Positive
      1. Negative Self-Talk: I Can’t Live with Myself (Relative Happiness, Prison in Lovely Staff at Thai Garden, 47 High St, Surrey KT138BBYour Live, Seeking Help)
      2. Positive Self-Talk: I Love Myself (Absolute Happiness, Buddhist Philosophy, Making Ripples, Practical Active Action, Breaking Out of ‘Prison’)
    6. Previous New Moon in Virgo
  3. QUOTEs: Happy New Moon in Virgo
  4. ACTION: Happy New Moon in Virgo
    1. History
    2. Sadness of Leonard Da VinciThai Rice
    3. Detail
    4. Live
    5. Kindness
    6. Aaron Sosa Lewis
    7. Energy of 3
    8. Perfection
  5. What will be covered in this Meditation Workshop
  6. Homework 
  7. 2013 Diary, Contact Details & Spiritual Investment

Invocation Blessing for New Moon in Virgo 05/09/2013

yellow sunshine

We Greet You

With Your Melanin Crystal

Activating Your DNA Memory

Colouring Your Life Blessings

We Greet You


We Greet You

With the Golden Unicorn

Protecting Your Practical Actions

In the Labyrinth of Your Life

We Greet You


We Greet You

With the Holy Relics of Egypt

The Eye of Isis in Your Pineal Gland

Pine Cone Controlling Your Feelings

We Greet You

Christ Consciousness

We Greet You

With the Heart of Christ

Activating Christ Consciousness

In the Cycles of Your Heart & Life

We Greet You

london wheel

We Greet You

With the Practical Wheels of Life

Churning & Moving Your Actions

Wanting and Choosing to Feel Good

We Greet You

Edinburgh Wedding

We Greet You

With the Planting of New Beginnings

Seeding What is Wanted Lovingly

In Your Sacred Marriage

We Greet You


We Greet You

With Your Human Being

Your Inner Space in Your Body

Making Peace Within

We Greet You


We Greet You

With New Empowering Insights

Activating Practicing Beliefs

For My Further Expansion

We Greet You

St Margaret's Chapel, Edinburgh Castle

We Greet You

With the God in You

Buddha in You, Adonia in You

Allah in You, Shakti Shiva in You

We Greet You

Active Feet

We Greet You

With the Earthly Vortex of Light

Activating Practical Progressive Feet

Spiritual Energy making you Efficiently Human

We Greet You

great internal healing

We Greet You

With the Holy Light of the Sun

Eating the Sun; Nourishing Your Skin

Making Your Bones Strong

We Greet You


We Greet You

With the Master of Your Soul

Silently Communicating Constant Awareness

Of the Joyful Creation & Expansion of You

We Greet You

pathways of light

We Greet You

With the Winding Road of Life

Labyrinth of Your Earthly Journey

Taking Practical Actions in Your Daily Life

We Greet You


We Greet You

With Quantum Consciousness

Gathering Quantum Relationships

Taking Quantum Actions of Hope & Joy in Life

We Greet You

in memory Alan Souster Janet Micheal CITI BANK

We Greet You

With Emotional Long Friendships

Rewarding Practical Friendships

Working Successful Friendships

We Greet You


We Greet You

With the Blessed Seedings

Concentrating on What is Going Well

Meditating on What is Important to You

We Greet You

We Greet You

We Greet You

We Greet You

We Greet You

channelled by Toks Beverley Coker for the New Moon in Virgo 05/09/2013


Happy New Moon in Virgo  (Element: Earth)

Celestial Energy and Solar Energy: A lot of Celestial Energy has been coming down to earth in the past few years, let alone this year and last month!  The Sun is such a powerful vortex of light and action.

Benefits of Solar Energy on Mother Earth & Humans: The human skin gets VITAMIN D from the sunlight. We need to ‘eat’ the sun in our skins, melanin and pigments.  Sunlight is a key factor in photosynthesis, used by plants and other autotrophic organisms to convert light energy from the sun (solar energy) into chemical energy; which produces food, wood and the biomass from which fossil fuels are derived. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solar_radiation

Scientists tell us  it takes 8.3 minutes for sunlight to reach the earth; and it takes energy 10,000-170,000 years to leave the sun’s interior and then be emitted from the surface as light. Direct sunlight has a luminous efficacy. Bright sBreakdown_of_the_incoming_solar_energyWikipedia.unlight produces illuminance of approx. 100,000 lux or lumens per sq m at the Earths Surface.  Sunlight is a portion of the electromagnetic radiation (infrared, visible, ultraviolet light) given off by the sun. On planet Earth, (Mother Gaia), sunlight is filtered through the earth’s atmosphere. About 30% is reflected back to space while the rest is absorbed by clouds, oceans and land masses. This activity causes various cycles of movement (atmospheric circulation or convention). One cycle is the water cycle which causes rain, clouds, vapour condensation. There is another cycle that produces atmospheric phenomena such winds and cyclones.  We have day time and night time with the movement of the earth around the sun.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Breakdown_of_the_incoming_solar_energy.svg 

Mother Earth Gaia Stonehenge EnglandGoing for Supervision: Recently I have been working with deep unhappiness and deep sadness with my clients; which has required me to go for supervision! First time in my life.  I am amazed at the quick results of supervision and going for my own individual sessions with my practitioner.  I realise how invaluable my work is and the positive effects it has on people.  It has made me realise how great a practitioner I am and how I work.  This is not to sound arrogant but to state a fact.  New Moon in Virgo is about facts.  It is about always ‘refining’ ourselves, doing self-reflection and being an catalyst in your own life.  It is taking practical action with you walking your path and heading to where you want to go to.

Self-Talk: Negative and Positive:  We all have a running commentary in our minds, our brain; telling us we are good or bad. These thoughts take up a lot of energy which can be empowering or disempowering. We find that these self-talk stem from the way we were brought up, our family, friends, society, environment, etc. 

Negative Self Talk: I Can’t Live with Myself.  This type of negative self-talk stems from deep unhappiness and sadness and lack of self worth and self value.  It can be destructive and depressing and difficult to get out of the hole you have dug for yourself or you have allowed another person to dig for you – and you have jumped in or been pushed in!!!  These negative thoughts never seem to stop and are always dictating to you and telling you not to trust what a person is saying; making you feel suspicious, and distrusting.

Do not Give UpYou are not happy.  You are living in a state of  Relative Happiness; which is dependant on the circumstances around you and it is short lived. For example your throw a tantrum like a child or baby if you do not get what you want or people do not do what you want. Once they do what you want you are happy: again this is short-lived!  Always your self talk is negative and powerless e.g. They do not love me.  I can’t live with myself.  They are laughing at me. 

Prison in your Life: Through your pain and negative self talk New Moon in Virgo lets you know the ‘prison’ you are in in your life, your home and your work.  You may feel disempowered or empowered in your ‘prison’  depending on how you are feeling, acting or thinking.  You may feel empowered if you kill a bird or hit a person.  You may feel disempowered if you are hit or abandoned.  Your mind has become your ‘prison’. This is how the mind turns into a torture instrument, a torture chamber.  You torture yourself and you torture others!  You may realise that your past and future is a thought in your head that could be living in you and replaying itself in a negative way……  Living in the past and future is not living in the now of the energy of New Moon in Virgo.

Seeking Help: You suddenly realise You are deeply unstable and chaotic. The state of your mind is fragile at this time and you will need support and help; as not always, will a conversation with ‘friends’ of ‘family’ help.  Knowing when to go for help is a smart thing to know and to do.  It means you are determined to get better and improve yourself because you now realise that the voices in your head are not always helpful, supportive or life supporting.

Pfreedomositive Self Talk:  I Love Myself.  When we have positive affirmations, feelings of love and empathy in our minds and our behaviour; we love ourselves and everyone.  This type of happiness is absolute happiness NOT relative happiness.  Absolute Happiness is not dependant on circumstances or the environment like Relative Happiness mentioned above.  You are happy no matter the chaos around you: you feel deeply happy and centred; and you see hope in making effort to achieve what you want.  You believe there is a golden opportunity somewhere.  You do not give up on yourself.  You feel calm, centred and happy; even in the midst of your sadness or the circumstances around you.  This is because your positive self talk is supportive, inclusive and life affirming. 

Buddhist Philosophy:  Be the Master of Your Mind.  Do not let your mind master you.  Be mindful.  Be aware.  Practice Mindfulness. Practice Awareness. Be Conscious. Be Aware.  Be Mindful.  Live in your moment of NOW.  I call it living in your moment of the NEW NOW.  Buddhists talk about transcending illusion, Maya, and fundamental darkness that cause great unhappiness. They do this with meditation and chants like Nam Myoho Renge Kyo.  It teaches about the law of karma and that we have 3,000 possibilities in a single moment of time i.e. a second. This is why karma is such a difficult subject to discuss and understand for many.  Why did this happen to me?  What does this happen to good people?  Why…..? How could…….? What does this mean? 

Making Ripples: Buddhists recognise that a thought is like a ripple in an ocean.  You are not your thought.  Right now you are the manifestation of all your past actions, words and thoughts.  cleansing waterRight now you can change your mind set to take action in your now to create positive results in your future. The choice, as always, is yours.  Remember a ripple does not last long in an ocean.  So you are not your thoughts.  Your thoughts are not you and you are not your thoughts.

Practical Active Actions: New Moon in Virgo forces you to look at the practical application of your thoughts in a positive empowering way for your life.  Use your mind to help you. e.g. You suddenly become aware of your ‘issues’ and the changes you need to let happen.  You need to step out of your way of thinking with this New Moon meditation to activate a new sense of aliveness and living in your own life!!!  A practical new action would be to visit another person when they are feeling down.  To help a person who collapses on the floor.

Breaking Out of the ‘Prison’: New Moon in Virgo mediation suddenly brings a break, an illumination, an insight, a transformation, a portal of change and transformation in one instant.  Your introspection and inner reflection needs an outlet and there is a sudden change in insight and action e.g. you remove your future of pain from you, with your insight; and you create a now of positive creation.  .  What pure truth do you need to live with your thinking, doing and feeling? 

Previous New Moon in Virgo: https://tokscoker.wordpress.com/category/new-moon/new-moon-2012/new-moon-in-virgo-6-9-2012/

QUOTEs: Happy New Moon in Virgo

“To the Top is where I am going to Be.”  Aaron Sosa Lewis

ACTION: Happy New Moon in Virgo


Taplow CourtEdinburgh CastleThe Queen's Gallery

It is a good time to visit and observe and reflect on history; and learn from the lessons of history; as we journey in the NEW NOW. Visiting historical places like Taplow Court in Maidenhead, Edinburgh Castle, and The Queen’s Gallery Palace of Holyroodhouse in Edinburgh; tells you a lot about human beings love for power, prestige and glory; as well as;  being consumed by greed, stupidity and anger!  New Moon in Virgo asks: Where in your life could history be mirroring an aspect of your life? 

Armour War MemorialWarMemorialScottish PiperShieldEdinburghCastle

SADNESS of Leonardo Da Vinci

LeoniBindingThe Leoni BindingLeonardo's DrawingsI am saddened to learn at Leonardo Da Vinci exhibition(Queens Gallery, Edinburgh), that his anatomical work on the human body was never published before he died! I felt his sadness.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leonardo_da_Vinci   Leonardo was known as a famous painter.  He dissected over 30 copses to create his great work.  It was published over 100 years later!

DETAIL   Virgo is an earth sign making it practical.  Virgo can be forthright, precise, executing and flawless. It is time to make details – write out what needs to be done and do it immediately.  What details need to be carried out before anything can be achieved.  Virgo loves details and attention to detail in all areas of live – food, health, mind, body, spirit, etc.  Be flawless like Leonardo.  Have a great work ethics like Leonardo. 

LIVE  New Moon in Virgo says do not die before you publish what is in you.  Do not let your brilliance ‘die’ when you ‘die’.  Let your brilliance live on in the work that you do. What practical action do you need to take to start or complete something?  Do you need to teach, write a book, publish your thesis, learn to swim?  Seed a new beginning for yourself with this new energy. 

KINDNESS of Aaron Sosa Lewis 

What is new today?  Whose budding talent do we celebrate?  Today I am choosing to share Aaron’s music with you because I love his innate human kindness, which I have personally experienced with the energy of the New Moon in Virgo. 

What did Aaron SAaron Sosa Lewishosa Lewis do? When I went weak at Sainsbury and fell to the floor; he was the only person who knelt down by me, put his faceMusic of Your Life by my face and talked to me and when I was stronger held my hand and picked me up. He stayed with me till I got stronger; taking care of me like a son would: holding my hand, supporting my weak body and guiding me as I walked!  While I sat on the chair he went off to put my shopping through the till, called me a taxi and when I was stronger walked me to the car park to pay £15 for my car valet service. Thank you Aaron Sosa Lewis. 

I was too dizzy to drive the car; and the manager, Albert Oyenusi, organised I pick it up on Friday, after the New Moon, at no cost to me.  Thank you Albert Oyenusi. 

AARON’s music is young, modern and quite ‘hip’ for me.  I love his philosophy: “To the Top is where I am going to Be.”   Please enjoy his rap songs he composed.  http://sosamusic.co.uk/

Energy of 3:  I notice every time just before the New Moon in Virgo an energy of 3 comes through for me.  Have you noticed that for yourself? Three people do something for me.  I meet up with three people.  Three similar things happen in one day.  In Sainsbury’s I had 3 people taking care of me: Patsy, Albert and Aaron.  Angelic Virgins came to my rescue in the form of two lovely men and a lady! I am calling them the 3 Angelic Virgins sent to help me via the Celestial Realm on practical Earth.  Thank you Celestial Angels of Protection.

Japanese GreetingsKindness:  New Moon in Virgo asks: What practical kindness are you going to carry out to a stranger you do not know or have never seen before?  Seek perfection in kindness.  Remember all 3 people did everything in their power to make me feel safe, secure and better.  All actions were practical and results orientated. This is the kind of kindness Virgo oozes.  Ooze with kindness to 3 people by taking practical action to help another person get better and make them happy. Visit your neighbour and check on an elder.

PERFECTION   Virgo is the sacred Virgin, pure, innocent, feminine and beautiful.  The Virgin Virgo seeks perfection in everything s/he does.  Virgo is sensitive, sensible, cheerful, patient, calm and neat.  Virgo is kind.  Virgo works diligently to achieve perfection and precision in all s/he does.

What will be covered in this Meditation Workshop

We will cover Colour Meditationall the above and more.  We will be doing a practical healing exercise creating a crystal layout to heal and balance all you chakras.  We will write out our new moon wishes. We will be manifesting joy in your life, because by knowing what you do not want, helps you to know what you do want.  We will be calling in, receiving and taking manifestation into our soul seed.  The manifestation you call in will show up as improvements in  your life.  You will Regroup and Launching a new rocket in your life.  You are an Energy Connoisseur and you will call in this power into your Soul Seed to seed, flourish, manifest and bloom. This healing meditation workshop will call forth Your Universe which will match you to your Unique Newness you are asking for. This experiential energy workshop will expand your consciousness because when you come to the workshop you will Be Willing to Feel Good and you will leave feeling good about your self and your possibilities. You will know that you are the practical creator of your experience. You are the object of your intention.


  1. What does it feel like to be you?  Solaris Stonehenge
  2. What practical action defines you?
  3. Sit and just allow the sounds (water, horns) and sights (dogs, people, buildings) around you without judgement.  Just allow this process and let in the peace that comes to you.  Keep the alertness and beauty of the moment. 
  4. Look at the picture of the Lady Solaris who took practical action to go to Stonehenge.  Just look at the background and allow the surroundings and sounds and feelings into your now and feel the freshness of Mother Earth supporting you with alertness and awareness.  Then ask yoursef: What practical actions do I need to take to get …. ….(somewhere /something / someone)?
  5. Do 3 practical actions you should have done and have not done.  Start and finish each action.
  6. Do 3 new practical actions that make you happy and feel your life.
  7. Do 3 practical actions that relate to your work.
  8. New Moon in Virgo says do not die before you publish what is in you.  Do not let your brilliance ‘die’ when you ‘die’.  Let your brilliance live on in the work that you do. What practical action do you need to take to make your dream/s come true and happen and physically touch your dream. 
  9. What kindness are you going to carry out to a stranger you do not know or have never seen before?
  10. What ripple effect are you having in your life? 
  11. What ripple effect are you making in your life?

2013 Diary, Contact Details & Spiritual Investment  

  1. This Workshop
  2. Workshops & Exhibition Dates
  3. Payment: Spiritual Offerings
  4. Social Media
  5. 1:1 Private & Confidential Sessions

1. This Workshop: New Moon in Virgo 05/09/2013

Please bring something to share if you can e.g. salad, vegetarian, fruits. No pork please. See you. Thank you.  For more details and to book, click here: http://newmoonvirgo050913.eventbrite.com/#

Info on Meditation: http://www.tokscoker.com/index.php/services/meditations

2. Workshops & Exhibition Dates

2013 Dates: https://tokscoker.wordpress.com/2013-dates-celebration-moon-workshops/

September 21/22                 October 12/13                  November 16/17                December 14/15

Toks is at The MIND BODY SOUL EXHIBITION AND The YOGA SHOW on 25, 26, 27 October 2013

Friday 25th October          12.30pm – 1.00pm

Stage:  The Dance of Isis Osiris and Horus with Toks Coker    Sensitive healing dance of Isis Osiris and Horus to transform your life.  Hold a wish as you watch this magical dance and heal your own portal of pain and love.  A flowing celestial dance of healing life death and rebirth; full of passion, colour and expression.

Saturday 26th October     12.30pm – 1.30pm

Workshop Room 2:  The Energy of Now Crystal with Toks Coker    If you are feeling confused, alone, frightened, stressed, ‘dead’, unsure about your life and looking for answers; this practical experiential healing workshop will give you insightful invigorating answers in any area of your life: relationships, work, family, love, money, etc. Take bold empowering steps and decisions. Understand why things are happening to you. Create a NEW YOU and a new Now. We will be working with the powerful energy of crystals, dragons, peace, harmony, balance and more.

Saturday 26th October      3.15pm – 3.45pm

Experience Zone:  Sexy Chakra Dance with Toks Coker    Demonstrating fun healing movements for each chakra, healing gestures, power stands, psychic protection.  Experience moving energy through your body working with the each of the 7 chakras, 7 power movements and 7 sacred sounds.  A very grounding, cleansing, energising, invigorating and healing experience for transcendence.

Sunday 27th October      12.00pm – 12.30pm

Stage:    The Dance of Isis Osiris and Horus with Toks Coke   Sensitive healing dance of Isis Osiris and Horus to transform your life.  Hold a wish as you watch this magical dance and heal your own portal of pain and love.  A flowing celestial dance healing life death and rebirth; full of passion, colour and expression.

Sunday 27th October     1.30pm – 2.00pm

Experience Zone:   Sexy Chakra Dance with Toks Coker    Demonstrating fun healing movements for each chakra, healing gestures, power stands, psychic protection.  Experience moving energy through your body working with the each of the 7 chakras, 7 power movements and 7 sacred sounds.  A very grounding, cleansing, energising, invigorating and healing experience for transcendence.

Saturday 26th October     11.00am – 11.20am

YOGA SHOW Stage Area:   The Dance of Isis Osiris and Horus  with Toks Coker   Sensitive healing dance of Isis Osiris and Horus to transform your life.  Hold a wish as you watch this magical dance and heal your own portal of pain and love.  A flowing celestial dance healing life death and rebirth; full of passion, colour and expression.

3.  Payment: Spiritual Offerings

http://www.eventbrite.com/org/350851891?s=12540716   Please bring something to share if you can e.g. salad, vegetarian, fruits. No pork please. Thank you.

4. Social Media

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5.  1:1 Private & Confidential Sessions

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With Warm Regards And With Buckets Full of Love Light Laughter Prosperity Success Happiness Disciple Oneness Freedom to YOU  Love Toks xxxxxx

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