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New Moon in Aquarius & Year of the Horse 30/1/2014

Happy BirthdayRonke Lawalpendant

I am so happy.  I just came from my belly dance class and I feel alive like a galloping happy horse.  There are Two New Moons in the month of January and a Full Moon on Valentine’s Day!  The Year of the Horse is starting with a bang.  What newness are you feeling at the moment that you did not expect to feel.  All so inclusive all these feelings and movement within your heart.  Today we will be in the actual time of the new moon during our meditation.

HAPPY New Moon in Aquarius 30/1/2014

Happy Chinese Year of the Horse 30/1/2014

Happy Birthday Aquarians

HAPPY St Valentine & Full Moon 14/2/2014

On the Menu we have:

  1. Invocation Blessing for New Moon in Aquarius & Year of the Horse 30/1/2014
  2. ENERGY OF NOW 2014: New Moon in Aquarius & Year of the Horse 30/1/2014         Eletiramisument: Air   21:40 GMT London
    1. Transition
    2. Unique
    3. Seclusion
    4. Song
    5. Chinese New Year of the Wood Horse -Animal Totem:  Horse
  3. ENERGY PAST: New Moon in Aquarius 2013  https://tokscoker.wordpress.com/?s=new+moon+aqurice and onionsarius 
  4. FUTURE ENERGY: HAPPY St Valentine & Full Moon 14/2/2014
  5. QUOTEs: New Moon in Aquarius Quotes
  6. ACTIONS: New Moon in Aquarius Actions
    1. x2 EXERCISES: New Moon in Aquarius & Chinese Horse Year Exercise
      1. Call in your Animal Totem: Horse
      2. New Moon in Aquarius Meditation
    2. POEM TO TREASURE
    3. BOOK TO TREASURE
      1. The Wrecking Ball by Juliette Kandur

  7. What will be covered in this Meditation Workshop? 
  8. Homework
    1. Soul Mate

For more details and to book this workshop click here: http://newmoonaquarius300114.eventbrite.com/#

The groups are small intimate groups. Let me know you are coming by calling, texting or emailing me.  Also, if you can, please bring something to share e.g. salad, vegetarian, fruits. No pork please. See you. Thank you.

Amathyst & Sparkling Heart Lights

Invocation Blessing for

New Moon in Aquarius & Year of the Horse 30/1/2014

Ronke Lawal

We Greet You

With the Graciousness of Beauty

Showing Your Essence

Your Elegance Poise and Radiance

We Greet You

Happy Birthday

We Greet You

With the Celebration of Life

Revealing Your Triumphs

Colourfully Displayed

We Greet You

pendant

We Greet You

With the Brilliant Gem of Truth

Planting a Seed for You

In the Prism of Your Heart

We Greet You

Charging 2013

We Greet You

With Your Galloping Horse

Charging with Courage

Wielding the Sword of Victory

We Greet You

Friendships

We Greet You

With Soulful Friendships

Bringing Laughter, Comradeship, Solidarity

To Your Daily Living Life

We Greet You

Teachers

We Greet You

With the Gift of Teaching

Inspiring Others with Loving Patience

Creating a New Generation of Hope

We Greet You

musician

We Greet You

With the Sound of Music

Easing and Soothing Your Soul

In Your New Beginning of Life

We Greet You

India Taj Mahal

We Greet You

With a Loving Soul Mate

Living Your Truths Together

In the Unfolding of This Life

We Greet You

Mariam A Agbaje

We Greet You

With the Intelligence of Your Mind

Seeking Answers with Insight

Receiving & Pouring In More Wisdom

We Greet You

Julie Bryant looking sexy

We Greet You

With the Silence of the Air

Radiating a Peacefulness in Your Countenance

A Gentleness in Your Being

We Greet You

make it happen

We Greet You

With the Decisions You Make

Taking Action with the Horse Year

Being More than You Ever Thought

We Greet You

graceful work ethics

We Greet You

With Your Pioneering Work Ethics

Walking and Talking Your Truth

In the Service of World Peace

We Greet You

Unicorn

We Greet You

With the Magical Unicorn

Your Spiritual Ambassador

Empowering Uplifting Energising

We Greet You

sacred

We Greet You

We Greet You

We Greet You

Channelled by Toks Beverley Coker for New Moon in Aquarius and Year of the Horse 30/1/2014

© Toks Coker 2014

ENERGY OF NOW 2014: New Moon in Aquarius & Year of the Horse 30/1/2014  Element: Air   21:40 GMT London

Transition  Well we certainly are leaving January now.  How was your transition from 2013 to 2014?  How was your settling into January 2014?  I found it very challenging and disabling as well as enabling.  I thought this is what this year is about – changing paradigms and having alchemical shifts and insightful breakthroughs. Hello

URANUS is the unpredictable planet that rules freedom loving Aquarians.  Aquarians like their independence and freedom.  They have many friends and form very very few really deep friendships.    Sociable, friendly, they love group interaction, and lots of synergy and synchronicity with laughter.  Aquarians make fine homes that friends like to sit in and talk in and laugh in.  I love Aquarian homes.

The symbol of Aquarius is the WATER CARRIER  – giving the water of knowledge to others….. New Moon in Aquarius may find you giving the water of knowledge to others – a humanitarian quality.  Greek mythology sees Aquarius as a Rain God pouring water on a dry earth to fertilise it. 

Unique You are unique in your own right.  How unique do you truly feel in your heart?  This new moon is about anchoring your uniqueness and recognising it to yourself.  I found a unique person recently and some of you may know about him already.  Jason deCaires Taylor is an internationally acclaimed eco-sculptor who creates underwater living sculptures, offering viewers mysterious, ephemeral encounters and fleeting glimmers of another world where art develops from the effects of nature on the efforts of man.     http://www.underwatersculpture.com/

Seclusion  With all this energy of people and information overload it is so important to have seclusion time where you take time alone – YOUR SACRED ME TIME – and find ‘Your Long Walk to Freedom’.

Song With all the craziness around I decided to choose a happy song I’m so Excited by the Pointer Sisters. I like these words and I sing them to myself when I am happy and excited about little or big things. I jump and dance when I am singing this at home and I smile when I am on the bus. Try it.

I’m so excited,
And I just can’t hide it,
I’m about to lose control
And I think I like it.
 

CHINESE NEW YEAR OF THE WOOD HORSE 30/1/2014

ANIMAL TOTEM – HORSE

horses stablesBlessings of Horse Year 2014  The year of the Horse is the time to make very strong effort to improve yourself.  To be more than you have ever been. To communicate and to show up in the limelight! To be active and lively.  The year of the Horse will bring surprises, romances, and travel.  It will be a fast year!  The horse will gallop this year. 

Goddess God Horse  Quan Yin has a white horse. Kwannon has a white horse.  Pegasus is a white horse. The Unicorn is a white horseChariots of Apollo were driven by white horses.  Surya, Sun God in India, has 7 red horses pulling his chariot.  What other stories or insights or Gods/Goddess do you know that work with the horse energy?  Please post below.  Thank you

Symbol of Power, wisdom, swiftness, magical powers, prophetic abilities, intelligence, and memory.  Symbol of the Moon and the Sun; as well as the Underworld, Death, and the Upper world (Sky).horse energy

Confident  Horse is energetic, beautiful, confident, can be showy and precise.

Support  Help Protection Horse will help  you battle a ‘war’ and will lead  you to peace. There was the movie ‘War Horse’ a few years ago, showing the use and value of horse energy in human life.  The Babylonians, Greeks, Attila and Genghis Kahn (a horse) and native Americans used them.   A Horse can be ferocious as well as gentle.  They do not like to be controlled or be told what to do.  They will kick and rant and protest. Think of an angry horse and you have an idea of what I am talking about. 

Winners  If you find  yourself competitive and wanting to win and be victorious when you normally are not then you know you are being influenced by the horse energy. 

Intelligent Horse is warm, loving, intelligent, and powerful. This is not a time for secrets as Horse energy hates lies, deception, hidden secrets, etc.  Everything comes out in the open. The intelligence of Horse Energy is very refreshing. 

Charging 2013When do U use Horse Energy  Use the horse energy when you need help and protection and you are going on a long journey; or an adventure; or a shamanic retreat; or vision quest. 

Horse Hours 11am-1pm 

Good Luck Horse energy is good luck energy bringing good fortune and love to ones home. 

Social Horses like to play and mix with others.  They are happy, cheerful, fun to be around.  They are also very popular amongst their friends. They love to be with their family and spend moments of happiness and bonding together. Try eating on the table once a week with the whole family if you can; if you do not already do this.  Cheers xx

Prayer  Call on the horse energy to pray to the cosmic galactic energy of your Spirit and Soul!  Really awaken to the beauty of you with this energy. Horse energy is intuitive so open up your own intuition. 

UnicornFreedom Like Aquarius, Horse love freedom and hate to be confined.  They will freely carry you to your destiny and on your destiny.  Horse energy is FREE SPIRIT.  They will carry you through the wind and air (appearing and disappearing) (shape-shifting) before your eyes.  They are truly magical and mystical and powerful animal totems and spirit guides.

Sexual There is a strong sexual energy during the Horse year.  I can already feel it!  There are strong emotions and passions.  Open your heart up.  Exercise regularly. Be aware of  how you are expressing your sexuality to yourself and  others.  Be aware of how others are expressing their sexuality to you. 

Dreaming about the horse means different things. A tied up horse can be you are feeling tied up or unable to move in your life or even in your sexuality. A horse attacking you could be great rage in you or you being abused.  Call, Skype or email Toks to have a dream interpretation session. 

Energetic  This year you will have great energy to continue no matter what. You will want to achieve your goals  and overcome negative emotions, feelings, and obstacles life throws at you. 

metal horseWatch Out  Horse energy can be stubborn like Taurus, it can talk too much, it may find it difficult to stand up when kicked repeatedly.  Sometimes this energy may make you not listen to advice and encourage a bad temper, making your  head strong and unbearable to be around.   Remember to finish projects you start and not do too much that you end up not starting / not doing / not finishing what you said you would.  Do not be too impulsive and do not always act quickly – in Horse year it is good to tale quick fast action but you have to know which quick fast action will benefit you.   Be careful with financial investments and unexpected costs.  Do not overspend during this Horse year. You may find it difficult to plan for the future and waste time and money.  Be aware of what is limiting you in your life.  If you are feeling tied up you know something is restricting you. Where are the roots of this limitation or restriction?  Remove the roots of the limitation/restriction.  It could be someone, a memory, a past experience, a responsibility, a limiting belief or feeling within you, a choice you made that no longer serves you. 

Horse Stars Rembrandt, Aretha Franklin, Ella Fitzgerald, Barbara Streisand, Denzel Washington, Jackie Chan, Oprah Winfrey, Paul McCartney, Genghis Khan, John Travolta, Harrison Ford, Cindy Crawford, Chopin.

Born in Horse Year   According to the Chinese you are a Horse if you are born in these years: 2014, 2002, 1990, 1978, 1966, 1954, 1942, 1930, 1918, 1906

ENERGY PAST

New Moon in Aquarius 2013  https://tokscoker.wordpress.com/?s=new+moon+aquarius 

FUTURE ENERGY

HAPPY St Valentine & Full Moon 14/2/2014n

QUOTEs: New Moon in Aquarius

The sense of justice and freedom and standing up for ones rights is a very humanitarian Aquarian quality. The words used by Nelson Mandela in the two quotes I have chosen are very very very related to the energy of air and the mind and taking a strong stand.

“Your Worship, I submit that I am guilty of no crime.”    pg389 Long Road to Freedom, Nelson Mandela

“I was made, by the law, a criminal, not because of what I had done, but because of what I stood for, because of what I thought, because of my conscience.”    pg392 Long Road to Freedom, Nelson Mandela

The topic of relationships and sexuality is always an emotional one with many controversial statements. Aquarians sense of freedom and openness can show up in a very free and liberal sexual energy view point.

When Jesus was asked at what moment the Kingdom would come, He replied:  “When the two shall be one, outside like the inside, the male with the female, neither male nor female.”     according to The Second Epistle of Clement

Relationships have a chance of being successful if each person in the relationship is self-centered, that is, focused on her/his own needs, and on becoming acquainted with the internal masculine or feminine self.  One must also have one’s own creative work and a sex life with oneself in addition to the sex in the relationship.      Masturbation, Tantra and Self Love, Margo Woods

NEW MOON IN AQUARIUS ACTIONS

2 EXERCISES: New Moon in Aquarius & Chinese Year of Horse 

EXERCISE 1: To Call in Your Horse Energyflaming horse 

  1. Close you eyes and call in the energy of the Horse.  Note the colour of your horse: a White Horse, a Gold Horse, A Red Horse, A Green Horse, A Silver Horse, A Blue Horse?

  2. Observe the horse slowly and watch it move and dance and jump freely in the field.

  3. Call the horse to you respectfully and gently yet firmly. 

  4. Look deep into the eyes of the horse and send love into the eyes of your horse and feel your horse sending love to your eyes too.

  5. Now invite in the quality of the Horse that you will be working with this year.  Feel the horse whispering to you and talking to you.  Feel the magic message from the horse. Receive the messages.

  6. Please remember to write down the messages you received from your horse so you do not forget the messages after the exercise. Gr8 work..

EXCERCISEB2: New Moon in Aquarius Meditation

stairsStairs  We will walk down down down down down the stairs and before us we will see a wonderful garden of flowers, trees, benches, fountains, and butterflies.  In this sacred wonderful space we feel safe and serene. We feel the energy of the light and healing of this space in our body, mind and spirit.  We feel our energy recuperating; making us feel refreshed and rejuvenated. We feel at peace and serene. 

Call Back Now feel you being in control of you and call back all your fragmented bits of you to sit back with you.  Release the fragmented parts that do not belong to you and send them back to the person they belong to!  Well done.  Take some time to do this.

Memory Being in full control of your being remember everything you need to remember deep in the silence of your energy vortex.  Feel yourself go deeper in this part of this meditation. 

Sacred Me Time  As you sit or lied down remind yourself that this is is a time of relaxing, for repairing, for letting go of the world and all its troubles.  This is your Sacred Me Time where you treasure and love yourself.  In this Sacred Me Time you are letting go of tension, fear, worry, anxiety, greed, anger, stupidity, sadness, grief, loss, despair, loss, stupidity, any other negative thoughts and emotions. You are letting go of the world and all its troubles.  You are letting go of your family, relationships, etc. and all its troubles. Give up all feelings, thoughts, habits, behaviour that do not promote love and wellbeing. You  are sitting only in your sacred peaceful Sacred Me Time.  After you have let go all that you can Fill yourself with love, peace, grace, freshness, happiness, healing, deep deep peace within you, compassion, eternal love, eternal bliss, courage, compassion.  No one bothers you in this space.  You are topping up and filling up your energy frequency with loving energy. You are topping up.  You are resting, relaxing, going deeply within, recuperating, repairing, filling yourself with love and light and joy and blessings of eternal happiness

Tears Calling in a trosesear of joy to your eyes and feel the bliss of the tearful joy.  Sense yourself from before birth, to birth to childhood, to growing to your present age and feel safe and protected and surrounded by love. 

Bring all the happy energies of your life into your heart – you are safe and whole and complete.  Really sense you are loved by your loved ones (whether or not they love you). 

Now send love – really send them love in love light and surround them in love light.  Send a pink cloud of love to them. Send soft pink petals to them. Let this always connect you to love.  Send to whoever needs your love and your light and you beam them directly now and beam them from your heart to their heart.  Then let go – do not hold on to this.  It is an easy exercise to help you release and give unconditional love.

Wisdom Being  Call in a wise and loving being full of compassion and wisdom.  Ask a question you need an answer to tonight.  Ask for what you need and listen to what you are told.  What does this feel like?  What does it look like?  Just listen with your inner ear with love.  There is no time or space – like in Star Trek – going where no one has gone before.  Listen for the answers within you.  Really call forth the answer into your life.

Thank you Say THANK YOU SACRED ME TIME.  Thank you sacred garden of beauty, love and light full of radiant healthy sunshine and warmth. Thank you healing environment full of peace and understanding.  Thank you. Thank  you. Thank you. 

Awake Slowly awaken yourself taking 7 deep slow breathes and slowly get ready to open your eyes and on the 10th breathe open your eyes look to mother earth and receive an earthly greeting.  Welcome back. 

POETRY TO TREASURE  

The Riddle of Hererising high

rising highWe’re looking.

For something so simple.

So simple,

that we can’t hold it in

our hands. Or in our heads.

So we look to him. To her.

To them. To there.

We look to everywhere

but here.

To when. To then.

But not to now.

It’s hidden just beyond

our cleverness.

So we presume it’s

out there.

But perhaps it’s in here.

Nick Askew

BOOK TO TREASURE

Book: The Wrecking Ball by Juliette Kandur

Email received from the writer: My name is Juliette Kandur and The Wrecking Ball is my first novel. Whilst it is fiction there are some incidents within the novel which are based on actual events which were reported to me as part of my research.
The section describing the meeting with the spiritual healer/reader and the subsequent meetings with and guidance from that healer is based on actual meetings which took place with Toks Coker with Hands of Light.
The initial reading with Toks as outlined in the book was a major catalyst in exposing the betrayal and fraud which is at the heart of the novel. The first reading was devastating in its accuracy and was the precursor to the unravelling of subsequent events.
Toks’ role was crucial to the themes of deceit, manipulation and toxic relationships which underscore the protagonists journey of discovery and survival within the novel. Juliette Kandur

http://www.amazon.com/The-Wrecking-Ball-Juliette-Kandur-ebook/dp/B00HG3GTQ8/ref=pd_ybh_2

From Toks: Hello everyone. Here is a real book about a real life experience that happened to a high powered client of mine. She wrote the book telling her story after coming to have her first Wisdom Starlight Tarot Reading with me which shocked her! Following many… more spiritual coaching sessions she now has written her first book about her experience and her triumph and her surprising journey with Hands Of Light Healing. She discovered the lies her partner was telling her – he is the wrecking ball. She finally got her life back but it has been a long hurl. She dedicated it also to me and Hands of Light !! That surprised me.  Thank you very much Juliette Kandur.  Please support her work and read her book. Pass it on as it is a wonderful  lesson for us all to learn from.  Let me know how you found the book. Thank you. Love Toks xxxx

What will be covered in this Meditation Workshop? 

We will do all the above and more…….Come experience it for yourself.

Homework

SOUL MATE EXERCISE

  1. What is your ideal day with a loved one?  Write it down.
  2. What have you always wanted to receive and never dared to ask with a loved one?  Write it down.
  3. Once you have done 1 & 2, find your loved one to role play this with you. 
    1. Make sure they have also done questions 1 & 2 as well. 
    2. Then you both share it openly and lovingly in discussion.
    3. Then role play the practical parts willingly respectfully and lovingly.  For example you each take 3 hours in your role play before you change roles.
    4. Give each other feedback throughout the experience and role play. Communicate. 

EXERCISES

  1. Have you read and done all the exercises on this blog?
  2. How did you find the book – The Wrecking Ball by Juliette Kandur?
  3. What was your Horse Energy?
  4. How did the meditation affect you when you did it?  Did you do it alone or with a group of people?

     malachite slabToks Coker 2013apophollite cluster of action

Feel free to leave a comment below. Thank you.

With Rainbow Blessings

Love Toks xxxxxx           www.handsoflight.co.uk

The content and images on this blog are protected by copyright. All rights reserved. © Toks Coker 2014

Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn 16 /01/14

Full Moon by Peter Li

Toks as Isis reaching out for Osiris

Full Moon by Peter Li

HAPPY FULL MOON in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn 16.1.14

We are 16 days into the new year. How fast the days are moving.  Are you feeling this too?  If you are feeling overwrought with emotions and feel your home is a box of volatile emotions waiting to erupt you know you are being influenced by this Full Moon in Cancer and the solar flares that have been happening above us.  Even if you are in relationship you may feel uncontrollable emotions ready to erupt at the drop of a pin with feelings of aloneness, loneliness and self doubt.  You may try to rationalise your feelings with the influence of practical Capricorn but you know this is just an unsteady train at the moment …one end emotional and the other end practical…. How do you merge these two extreme feelings? 

Let us look at the Energy of Now…. For more details and to book this crystal healing workshop, click here: https://fullmooncancer160114.eventbrite.co.uk/

On the Menu we have: (there is a lot to cover)

  1. Invocation Blessing for Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn    Thursday 16 January 2014   
  2. ENERGY OF NOW 2014: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn    Thursday 16 January 2014    04:53 GMT London     Element Water/Earth
    1. What are the problems you have child?peridot cross
    2. Dreams and Failureavocado salad
    3. Dreams and Success
    4. What are Paradigms
    5. Habitual Routine
    6. What influences our paradigms
    7. How do I change my paradigm
      1. Effort from you
      2. Awakening Activation
      3. Write your new paradigm
      4. What others think
      5. Believers who see greatness in you
      6. Healing Heart
      7. Do the work
      8. Changing Friends
      9. Changing Mind Set – Stop doing something’s, Excuses,
      10. Self Talk
      11. Prison of the mind
      12. Just change
    8. Exercise to Change your Mind Set
  3. ENERGY PAST: Full Moon in Cancer 2012  https://tokscoker.wordpress.com/?s=full+moon+in+cancerFISH
  4. ENERGY FUTURE:  YEAR OF THE HORSE
    1. Exercise to Call in Your Horse
    2. Animal TotemAvocado Roll
  5. QUOTEs: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn 
  6. Two BOOKS TO TREASURE
  7. ACTION: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn   
    1. JENNY RODRIGUEZ
  8. What will be covered in this Meditation Workshop?
    1. Crystals for sale
    2. What will we cover this year 2014
  9. Homework
  10. Testimonials from last meditation: New Moon & Sun in Capricorn 1/1/2014

For more details and to book this workshop click here: https://fullmooncancer160114.eventbrite.co.uk/ The groups are small intimate groups. Let me know you are coming by calling, texting or emailing me.  Also, if you can, please bring something to share e.g. salad, vegetarian, fruits. No pork please. See you. Thank you.

peridot cross

  Invocation Blessing: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn   

Thursday 16 January 2014    04:53 GMT London     Element Water/Earth

Toks Dance of Isis Osiris Horus on stage at the Om Yoga show 2013

We Greet You

With the Energy of Playfulness

Inviting You to Dance

The Sacredness of Your Life

We Greet You

Toks as Isis reaching out for Osiris

We Greet You

With the Energy of Receiving

Gracefully What is Yours

Yours by Divine Right

We Greet You

YemanjaBL

We Greet You

With the Energy of Sea Goddess Yemaya, Mami Wata

Moving & Shifting Emotional Drainage

Replacing with Creative Life Force

We Greet You

cosy bed

We Greet You

With a Loving  Relationship

In the Comfort of Your Home

Secure Safe Sexy Sensuous

We Greet You

Oprah_Winfrey_with_Barack_and_Michelle_ObamaWikipedia

We Greet You

With the Your Greatness of Being

A Pinnacle of Recognition

Excellent In All that You Do

We Greet You

calling in healing

We Greet You

With Sacred Gatherings

Receiving Divine Abundance

Surrounded by Supportive People

We Greet You

owl

We Greet You

With the Angel Owl of Wisdom

Seeing All At Once

Alerting You to Any Danger

We Greet You

jesus and healing relationship crystals

We Greet You

With Healing Crystals

Blessed by Christ Consciousness

Bringing Healing & Loving Relationships

We Greet You

pyramids points slabs

We Greet You

With Splendid Direction

Crystal Pillars of Strength & Power

Grounded Secure in Your Heart

We Greet You

crystal angels

We Greet You

With the Angels of Light

Anchoring Divine Intelligence

In All Your Actions

We Greet You

apophollite cluster of action

We Greet You

With Healing Apophollite

Swimming in the Clearing Clusters

Creating a Lightness of Being

We Greet You

red jasper alian and lapiz lazuli skull

We Greet You

With the Skulls of Magic

Activating Will Power

Helping You In One Area of Your Life

We Greet You

crystal tower

ankh

WE Greet You

We Greet You

We Greet You

Channelled by Toks Beverly Coker for this luxurious Full Moon in Cancer 16/1/2014

© Toks Coker 2014

ENERGY OF NOW: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn   

Thursday 16 January 2014    04:53 GMT London     Element Water/Earth

What are the problems you have my child?  The old wise beautiful crone asked.

That is the question we all want answered by a magic wand or by easy words of encouragement that let the problem go awAkshai and brother swimmingay.! 

Greed, anger and stupidity are the 3 great evils that befall man say the Buddhists.  These 3 great evils affect our relationship we have with people, money, sex, work and addictions like smoking or weight problems.  

Are you swimming with ease and joy in your life or are you drowning in your emotions with this Full Moon in Cancer?  This is quite a question to cover in a blog.  It takes a lifetime to cover and live these answers, with all the process involved in healing our pain and YemanjaBLworry.

Dreams and Failure

Your dream is inside you no matter how much failure you have experienced.   Please remember that. Your failure has shown you what did not work.   Congratulate yourself on the learning from your failure.  Remember failure is just saying “That did not work.”  It is not saying “You do not work.”  Being overwhelmed by your failures, doubts and indecisions can make you feel like you are drowning in a wild perilous sea. 

Dreams and Success

Your dream is inside you no matter how much success you have experienced in other areas of your life. Your successes show you what has worked in your life. It says “This idea / action worked.”  Can it be repeated again or shall we do something different?  It says “This works.”  Do you keep doing it for now or for always?  This energy may make you question your successes as well!  This is the time to really celebrate your success and the dreams you have made a reality.  Why not list a few now just so that you know you have had some dreams come true.  Well Done

What are Paradigms?

Amathyst Rose Gold FlowerThe Full Moon makes us look at the energy of paradigms and the effect it may be having on our emotions.  All year we will be working with paradigms to help move and shift us to where we really want to be.  When you look at the picture of the pendant how has that affected your state: feelings, mind, body?

A paradigm is a mental program that controls our habitual behaviour.  We all have multiple habits which we carry out unconsciously in our daily lives.  We all live on different habitual paradigms on a daily basis e.g. different ways of getting up from bed in the  mornings, different ways of behaving in the office, on a date or in a meeting.  These paradigms are habitual routines in our subconscious mind we are living in our conscious mindBelow are examples of habitual routines.  Which ones apply to you?

Habitual Routine

  1. What habits have you got in your morning routine? You wake up with a routine.  What is your routine every morning when you wake up?  How do you wake up in the morning? Do you jump out of bed immediately or do you take a while or a very long time to get out of bed?   What do you do? What do you do first?  What do you do next, then next, then next?  What time do you get up?  Do you shower, brush your teeth or shave first? Are your grumpy?  cosy bed
  2. What habits have you got at work?  Are you always late for work?  Are you early for work?  Do you go immediately to make a cup of tea or coffee?  Do you say the same words to your co-workers?  What do you do?
  3. What habits have you got when you get back home? Do you put on the TV immediately? Do you take off your shoes first and then wash your hands before you enter your home?  Do you throw your clothes on the floor?  Do you grab a beer?
  4. What habits have you got when you go out on a date? Do you look at everyone around you ignoring your date? Do you drink too much?  Do you have one night stands?  Are you very attentive and jealous of anyone looking at your date?  Do you fart?
  5. What habits have you got in your intimate relationships? Do you pick your nose?   Are you unfaithful?  Do you hold hands when you walk in public?  Do you buy each other little gifts?  Do you still ‘date’ each other even though you have been going out for a while? 

What influences our Paradigms?

We are influenced by our environment such as our family up bringing, social, economic and political environment.  We are influenced by TV, advertising boards on the streets, Obama, Michelle, Oprah (pic from Wikipedia), magazines, newspapers, movies we watch. We are influenced by our friends, neighbours, and strangers we meet. 

Oprah_Winfrey_with_Barack_and_Michelle_ObamaWikipediaWe are programmed by our life style and the language we are brought up in. A Japanese man can speak like an American because  he lives in America.   A Nigerian man can speak with a posh English accent because he went to a private expensive school in UK. 

Many people inherit beliefs about black people, Chinese people, Japanese people, Africans and Americans.  What beliefs have you got about ‘foreigners’ in your country? Where you once a ‘foreigner’?   

This Full Moon is about looking and celebrating areas of work and areas of relationships we have triumphed in.  It is also about looking at the extreme side of life! What influences your thinking in you life at the moment?

How do I Change My Paradigm?

Effort from You Changing your paradigms takes effort from YOU. You can get the help through various positive life affirming activities such as attending a workshop, a seminar, and seeing a practitioner like Toks, a Spiritual Life Wisdom Coach.  You can use various alternative methods like mediation, mindfulness, Thai chWater & Rock Earthi, Chi Kung, massage, yoga etc.

Awakening Activation You can activate your thinking, intuition, perception (how you see the world), will power, authenticity, your real self, your higher self,  your creative faculties, imagination, reason, your judgment, your use of time (be effective with the use of your time), your effectiveness, your productivity, your logic, and happy self with your paradigm shift.  It is easy when you work on it like water flowing over the rocks as in this picture. But you must work on yourself continually.

Write your New Paradigm  One of the things you can do to change your paradigm is YOU need to write your new paradigm and get to know yourself. 

What Others Think My client called me saying he was worried about what his friends would think about the changes in his life…….. He went on of a while and I let him. When he finished and he had let it all out of him I said slowly “Stop worrying about what others think.  Only worry about what you think.  That really is all that matters.”  I went on to say that  “The only person who puts a lid on your income is yourself.” I encouraged him to flow with his life and move with his heart.  After x8 two hours sessions he is on his way to really living his dream and life.  Congratulations young man.  Love Toks xxxx 

calling in healingBelievers who see greatness in You  Surround yourself with believers who see greatness in yourself even when you do not belief in yourself.  Someone who sees greatness in you is the person who helps you change your paradigm.  Our behaviour is changed automatic when we are surrounded by supportive loving energy.

Healing Heart Living from your healing heart is living in the future.  The heart activates belief and momentum. Remember do not live from your head because this is mainly about living  in the past.  

Do the Work  AFTER you attend all these activities and read all the books and attended all the seminars ONLY YOU must do the work to keep the new habit in place. No one can do it for you – you are the only one who will keep this new habit active in you.  Changing your paradigm involves taking action and practicing a new  habit constantly till it becomes habitual. You change paradigms with time and effort and repetition of new ideas.  You have to be willing and able to do the necessary work.  Everyday is another opportunity to change your life. Change takes time.  Make the time to make the change you want in your life.  Make a timetable of the new actions in 2014.  This is very Capricorn practical energy making plans and timetables

Changing Friends You may have to change friends with your  new habits e.g. you choose to no longer take7th 1111 cocaine and binge drink so you stop hanging out with your friends who take drugs and drink.  Be vigilant when you decide to live the life you want to live.  Stopping smoking, losing weight, making more money, being more aware of yourself, activating your spiritual energetic power within you will cause a great personal shift within you and around you. Be prepared to loose some people along the way who may not like to see you so successful and happy. When you change your paradigm your friends may leave you, they may resent your success, let them go. New better friends will come in.

Changing Mind Set The programme in our mind is controlling our lives.  This is the paradigm.  Stop Doing Some things We do things we do not want to do; and yet we keep doing it!  ‘We cannot stop ourselves’ is the statement we keep telling ourselves or others keep telling us.  Excuses We find one excuse after another for not doing or for doing!  These things we do, when we do not want to do them, keep  producing results we do not want. We keep procrastinating.  We keep saying we will do something and never do it.  We keep saying we will deliver on time and we are always late. Our actions do not match our words.  We know we want to change our mind set but we have no means of doing it. 

Self Talk YOU SAY: “Success keeps escaping ME.”  We are ALL conditioned to fail or succeed. THE CHOICE IS YOURS.  Most people on welfare benefits stay on welfare benefits and have a generation of this family habit.  Many battered wives stay with their husbands for years; and even if they leave will go back an average of seven times before they find their will power to finally leave an abusive relationship.

yin yangPrison of the Mind   There are many types of prison.  There is the prison you put yourself in and there is actual prison.  Both prisons have keys that lock you in!  Many people who go to real prisons go back again.  I once worked with a lady who proudly told me her father and brother where in prison and had been in prison many times. She loved telling me stories which I listened to in awe! I had never met a person like that before then!  I was too afraid to tell her my father was a professor and doctor who was invited to royal functions in UK the 1950s. I was so glad she did not ask me what my brothers did; as I would have to to tell her the truth, that one is a surgeon and the other other a charted accountant; each running their own successful business.  I allowed her her Being.  I did not intrude my own private lifestyle or beliefs on her. She said I was a great friend and a great listener.

Just Change  To change your mind set you need to change your subconscious mind to change your habits in your conscious mind! There are various ways (mentioned above) you can do this depending on the root cause of the problem.

EXERCISE TO CHANGE YOUR MIND SET LOVELY ROSE

  1. Flower Energy:  Call in the smell of a lovely rose or lavender or lilies.
  2. Skull Energy:  Look at your skull and feel the lightness of your skull.
    1. Look into your skull and feel the inside of your skull.
    2. Look into your skull’s right eye and then look into the left eyeTwo Friends.
    3. Look into the inside of your skull’s  left ear and then into inside the  right ear.
    4. Feel the freedom of lightness in your being as you move inside your skull.
  3. Body Energy:  Now move inside your body.  Your skeletal structure.  Your organs: heart, lungs, kidneys, liver, spleen, etc.  Your blood flow.  Your breathing in and out. 
  4. Shield Energy:  Be aware of any shields, blockages, discomfort around your body.  Knock them down!  Knock any thing that tells you that you cannot achieve or do or afford……All blockages melt away like ice under the sun.  Feel and sense all blockages in the cold ice melt away right now.
  5. Universal Energy:  Now feel yourself connected to everything in the universe.  The rhythm of life is around you and you are living with the rhythm of life.  Do not define it.  Remove this definition e.g. some call it God, Buddha, Allah.  Some call it Nam Myoho Renge Kyo, OM.  Just flow with the energy and choose to do anything that you want.  Sense yourself as invisible like air and ONE.
  6. Invocation Energy:   Feel yourself develop a strong urge to change your paradigm and create owla new life and a new you.  Anything you want is already here.  Get in harmony with what you are wanting.  See the Tree in your Heart – your wishing Tree – giving you what you want – connecting to it to give you want you are wanting.  In this relaxed state you can connect to what you want.  You are becoming lighter and you can see clearer and your mind is getting confident, and stronger and happier.  You are powerful and you unlock  the power in you, your DNA, your breathe of life, you power of beyond, and you need no approval to BE.  You know and you know and you know. This power is deep within you, flowing into your consciousness. Activate your infinite power from your cells, your flow of blood, your inner breathe.  (Be aware of the exercise no. 3).
  7. Physical Energy:  When you open your eyes you will feel tremendous energy move through you.  You live the way you know you can live not the way someone else wants you to live.  You feel the power  of the energy flowing through you.  Your mind is sharp.  Feel a power in you that is yours and feel a smile in your body. 

ENERGY PAST: previous Full Moon in Cancer 2012 

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ENERGY OF THE FUTURE: HORSE ENERGY

CHINESE NEW YEAR OF THE HORSE

The year of the Horse is the time to make very strong effort to improve yourself.  To be more than you have ever been. 

EXERCISE TO CALL IN YOUR HORSE

    1. Close you eyes and call in the energy of the Horse.  Note the colour of your horse: a White Horse, a Gold Horse, A Red Horse, A Green Horse, A Silver Horse, A Green Horse, A Blue Horse?flaming horse
    2. Observe the horse slowly and watch it move and dance and jump freely in the field.
    3. Call the horse to you respectfully and gently yet firmly. 
    4. Look deep into the eyes of the horse and send love into the eyes of your horse and feel your horse sending love to your eyes too.
    5. Now invite in the quality of the Horse that you will be working with this year.  Feel the horse whispering to you and talking to you.  Feel the magic message from the horse. Receive the messages.
    6. Please remember to write down the messages you received from your horse so you do not forget the messages after the exercise. Gr8 work.

    ANIMAL TOTEM – HORSE

    horse energyHorse is energetic, beautiful, confident, can be showy and precise.  Horse will help  you battle a ‘war’ and will lead  you to peace. A Horse can be ferocious as well as gentle.  Horse is warm, loving, intelligent, and powerful.  Use the horse energy when you need help and protection and you are going on a long joumetal horserney or an adventure or shamanic retreat or vision quest.  Horse energy is good luck energy bringing good fortune and love to ones home.  Horses like to play and mix with others.  Call on the horse energy to pray to the cosmic galactic energy of the Spirit and Soul!  Really awaken to the beauty of you with this energy. 

    HOMEWORK: What other stories or insights or Gods/Goddess do you know that work with the horse energy?  Please post below.  Thank you.

    QUOTEs: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn

    Full Moon in Cancer with Sun in Capricorn energy likes tradition.  I have chosen quotes from people who hold great family tradition and great work ethics.  Cancer is emotional family.  Capricorn is practical work.   All these quotes vibrate with the Energy of Now. 

    • The way you help heal the world is, you start with your own family. Mother Teresa
    • Be the Change you want to see in your life. Ghandi
    • To be able to shape your future, you have to be willing and able to change your paradigm. Joel Barker  
    • Any idea that is held in the mind, that is emphasised, that is either feared or revered, will begin at once to cloth itself in the most convenient and appropriate form available.  Andrew Carnegie

    Two Books to Treasure

    I am sharing two fabulous books that eco  the energy of this full moon.  Most of you may know them already.  Have you read them recently?  If not then read them again.  The Two Books to Treasure are Paradigms by Joel Barker and Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.

    ACTION: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn

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    Or spending the evening in a more relaxed way. A romantic evening.  A relaxing evening in a candle lit room.  A soak in the bath. A glass of wine to soothe and reward yourself.  A lovely soft duvet to sleep under. Or a meet-up with friends to have a lovely meal and catch-up?  Full Moon in Cancer wants to celebrate you.    

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      What will be covered in this Meditation Workshop?

    We will cover all the above exercises and more…..

    We will have lots of lovely crystals for sale to help you with the Energy of Now – how you are feeling now in your life and what you need to help you in the future and for what you are wanting e.g. new baby, new home, healing, peace, safety, protection, etc.

    What will we cover this year 2014

    This year 2014 we will decree your future with the New Moon and Full Moon Mediation Workshops.  We will work together to change your paradigm.  You will build a happy life, a supportive happy relationship, a successful business and we will make a lot happen together. We will make a decision to do something and we will do it. You will realise that you are an ordinary person doing extraordinary things. 

    1. Every New Moon and Full Moon we will have fabulous crystals for sale to help you on your journey. If you see a crystal  you want on this blog just email me and I will let you know the price.  You will have to pay for postage.
    2. Each meditation will carry 2 CPD points.  Build up your points here.
    3. Pay in advance for 4 moon meditation workshops and receive the fifth one free.  5 for the price of 4!

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    Homework

    Andrew Carnegie gave Napoleon Hill homework.  He asked him to commit to saying everyday morning and evening for 30 days:  “Andrew Carnegie, I’m not only going to equal your achievements in life, but I’m going to challenge you at the post and pass you at the grandstand.”   Andrew Carnegie was training him to believe in himself – when you believe it then it will happen. Andrew was saying  IF I CAN DO IT YOU CAN DO IT.

    30 DAYS CHALLENGE  

    1. Choose a crystal (e.g. an apophollite cluster, a wand, a directional point, a pyramid, a tumble stone) to help you with this process.
    2. Work on one thing e.g. your time management – master the management of my activities. How will that affect your income, your health, your relationship?
    3. What you are doing is working on the limits you are imposing on yourself.  You are creating a breakthrough.  You are working on informing the old  habits that you are doing things you do not like to do!  You are changing your paradigm. 
    4. Choose someone you resonate with and say: “…………………., I’m not only going to equal your achievements in life, but I’m going to challenge you at the post and pass you at the grandstand.”   Affirm this for every day morning and evening for the next 30 days.
    5. Affirm every day morning and evening: I am going to change my paradigm and the change will be huge and permanent. I am going to change my time management within the next 30 days or sooner.
    6. Statements of fact: 
      1. I am so happy now that ……I no longer….
      2. I am so happy now that I am winning in the following area/s of my life………………..

    HORSE ENERGY:

      1. Read the notes above on Horse Energy. 
      2. Do the healing exercise above. EXERCISE TO CALL IN YOUR HORSE.
      3. What other stories or insights or Gods/Goddess do you know that work with the horse energy?  Please post below.  Thank you.

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    Testimonials: New Moon and Sun in Capricorn 1/1/2014

    This is the first time I’ve met Toks Coker and done her class.  It was really a very intYuung Yuung, Indra, Mariaeresting and energetically moving class. I feel I have a greater clarity to start my New Year 2014 and look forward to making this year a very successful joyful year for me and all the people I meet on my journey.  Thank you Toks.  Indira Raj-Guru

    Great session helping us to let of of any 2013 energies that no longer helps us.  More importantly, it was great to acknowledge and anchor lessons / blessings for 2013 and the 2014 vision.  Beautiful, loving and nurturing energy throughout the session. Toks was amazing holding the space and leading us through this journey.   Powerful mediation anchoring the new year’s energies that we ant to bring in our lives.  Thank you very much.  Maria Fotiou

    The session is enlightening and very helpful. Yummy Yummy Yap

    Feel free to leave a comment below. Thank you.

    With Rainbow Blessings

    Love Toks xxxxxx

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