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Full Moon in Leo & Sun in Aquarius 3 Feb 2015

Friday 13 Full Moon 2014

Numerology of Full Moon in Leo   3/2/2014

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                    Full Moon in Leo 3/2/2014             3+2+2+0+1+4=12        1+2=3

The Energy of Today 3 February 2015

Happy Full Moon.  Full Moon in Leo is about shining the light on the part of you that is hidden, in pain and in the shadows.  Aquarius allows us to fly high and journey to the brightest star – Sirius.

Full Moon SmileI woke up feeling great this morning. It was like the moment I stopped fighting to make things happen the energy calmed down around me and I woke up the lovely white snow outside my flat an a sense of calm and joy.  I was so surprised I thought: “This makes sense – it is the Snow Moon today – Full Moon in Leo.”  I thought I will take a picture of myself and capture the look! Can you see it?

Entering 2015 was like being on a fast train that would not stop. There was so much to do and so much to get done and so much not done!  It was like a never ending cycle of things to do.  Today for the first time in 2015 I feel calm and happy and serene.  Happy Full Moon in Leo, the Lion.  I am beaming like a Lioness.  My lovely main of hair is shiny and clean.  Hello all of you out there.  I Greet You.

This Full Moon in Leo is about allowing peace into your daily life.  Slowing down and relaxing like the lion would on the grass, looking around at your life and enjoying where you are right now. I hope this finds you enjoying where you are right now in your life.

Today is about being still and taking a moment to really enjoy where you are right now.  It is about gathering together with others and being in a sacred space that empowers and holds you in the light.  We at the Moon Gathering will be held in the light of the Full Moon calling in Sacred Peace into our Knowing and calling in Sacred Knowing into our Peace.  We will be Linking into the Excellence in our own individual lives.  See you. 

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The Energy Just Gone

The Energy Just Gone was very emotional with the Full Moon in Cancer and the Super New Moon in Aquarius.  The journey took us through many portals of life and living.  It journeyed us through our darkness and our sufferings and our hidden aspects.  It brought out the worst in us.  It stretched us to prepare for the growth of 2015.  We have yet to grow.  I know the preparation in the first three months of the year will propel us to be more than we have ever been – to be GLOBAL CITIZENS OF LIFE.

The effect of the Planets on us has been tremendous.  We have Pluto highlighting our shadow hidden side.  We have Mars, God of War, bringing out our anger and aggression.  We have Earth rotating allowing our process and nurturing us as much as we allow her to. 

Light is a very powerful vortex.  We have energetic light, cosmic light, healing light, torch light, street light, building light, etc.  Even the United Nations declared this year 2015 the International Year of Light.  You can scroll down to 2015 INTERNATIONAL YEAR OF LIGHT 2015 for related videos and websites on light. 

“On 20 December 2013, The United Nations (UN) General Assembly 68th Session proclaimed 2015 as the International Year of Light and Light-based Technologies (IYL 2015). ….. In proclaiming an International Year focusing on the topic of light science and its applications, the United Nations has recognized the importance of raising global awareness about how light-based technologies promote sustainable development and provide solutions to global challenges in energy, education, agriculture and health. Light plays a vital role in our daily lives and is an imperative cross-cutting discipline of science in the 21st century. It has revolutionized medicine, opened up international communication via the Internet, and continues to be central to linking cultural, economic and political aspects of the global society.”  http://www.light2015.org/Home/About.html 

“The International Year of Light expands the possibility of opening our consciousness to the Rays of Light which permeate our Universe. Let’s expand our attunement with the Light Laws of this exquisite Universe; a Universe which, like us, is lit from within, burnt and illuminated with the Light of LOVE.”  Carol Ann Ciocco

Crystal Matrix[18]

The Energy of Now

Today with the vortex of the Full Moon in Leo we have the glorious light of the Full Moon illuminating more abundance of life for us. 

Invite In This Full Moon invites in more confidence, more light, more energy and more relaxation into your energy.  You feel more in your own space and more in your own field.  It is a coming together of yourself; back home to yourself.  Celebrate this.  Wear bright colours to activate your confidence and courageous energy.  Wear red to activate your red blood cells. Wear something yellow or gold to shine your gloriousness from inside you.  Breathe in your favourite colours and feel the colours relaxing your body.  Really enjoy the beauty of YOU. 

here is to looking at youExpress what you are wanting; as opposed to what you are not wanting; or want you are not liking.  Express what you are seeing that is nice. Express only good things.  Express appreciation.  Express love.  Express with words, with your smiling face, with an open heart.  Express with the sun shining from deep inside you; and allow your energy to lift the spirit of others.  Be the light you seek.  Be the voice you want to hear.  Be with qualities you want the most in your life.  Call forth 3 qualities now.  Fill your life up with positive possibilities and potential. 

So nice to feel the sun shining on my face as I type this message to you. 

Do Something creative.  Do something kind.  Do something magnanimous. Do something nice.  Be creative with your time and the effort you put into doing something for someone or for yourself.  Really treasure you.  Invite in the collective energy of light and the individual quality of light.  Apply this energy into your projects to do with bringing more of what you need.  It could be more money to buy a new home.  It could be more money to pay your bills.  It could be greater relationships that empower you.  Do that with this wonderful portal energy.  Take up the torch of your life and stand showing everyone what you  have achieved and done so far. Congratulate yourself.  Congratulate others around you for their achievements no matter how small. 

jesus and healing relationship crystalsLight Vs. Dark We continue our battle of living with the Dark and the Light in balance.  We make friends with our Dark side as well as with our Light side.  It is two sides of a coin.  It is opposites. It is duality. We have the North pole and the South pole.  We have the opposites sitting with us today. 

Integration By integrating the darkness we are able to hold more light.  How difficult this is for me sometimes! 

How many times do I walk into an environment thinking it is wonderful only to leave feeling depleted and angry or to suddenly feel like leaving as I settle down to have a drink!  I prefer it when energy tells me not to go so I do not waste my time there!  Alas this is not so.  I know that all anger is coming from the planet Mars, God of War and aggression.  Even if I realise I really did not want to go, but I went to please others; the challenge in these situations is to integrate the darkness into the light; to transmute the darkness and allow the darkness to flow through or around me.  After all it is only energy.

patterns of lifeActivating the Courageous Fighting Spirit within me in a positive way is the best way forward – knowing that I am safe and OK to be in this energy vortex; and recognising that by integrating the light; I am going through my own personal spiritual process and test.  

Light and Dark is only energy.  Absorbing the energy into your body or auric field will affect you if you do not transmute the energy or remove it.  I brush my teeth regularly to cleanse my energy field.  The challenge is to stand in my own power and squarely face all energies and say hello with a smile on my face.  Now that is a nice new concept and a way to celebrate the way forward into 2015.

To be a Light Master one must be able to integrate the darkness in all levels. 

Egyptian Gods  We see the Egyptian god Horus representing the daytime sky and Set the night time sky.  We see the Goddess Nut covering the night sky with the sparkling stars.  Even in the dark we have the light sparkling away. 

Past Present Future  We have past and future from the point of now.  The past is behind us. We face our future from the point of the present – the Now. 

Sopdet.svgCelestial Gathering this Full Moon I have always worked with the Milky Way and Sirius.  We will be connecting to both portals this Full Moon. It is a gathering of Light Beings we will be connecting with. They are coming for the party.  Are you?  We will have the Egyptian Gods – Isis, Osiris, Horus.  We will have the Stars – Sirius, Osiris, Sun. 

The Egyptian Goddess Sopdet is the Egyptian personification of the star Sirius. I love this drawing by Jeff Dahl. Her partner is Sah (constellation of Orion).  Her child Sopdu. Her name in hieroglyphs is

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We will be working with the energy of Sirius in the Full Moon Workshop tonight. You can read more about Sirius on the following links

  1. http://souledout.org/cosmology/sirius/index.html
  2. http://earthsky.org/brightest-stars/sirius-the-brightest-star#history
  3. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sirius

We will be working with the 5 pointed star on her head.  You can read more about that symbol here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serer_religion

Your words touch my heart

Healing the Ancestral Tree

FamilyMoon Workshop Exercise We will be doing an exercise to heal your ancestral tree at the Full Moon Healing Workshop on February 3 at 7pm.  This Full Moon in Leo is about giving back what is not yours to carry.

Children take on their family karma; and their parents issues; consciously and unconsciously.  You find that you may say something the way one of your parents used to say it.  You may get angry just the way your father/mother did.  You become like them.  The son may take his father’s anger and claim it as his.  He may respond to everyone like his father.  He may even hate himself; because he hates his father; and; not even know the association of the origin of the hatred he feels for his father. This is a mirroring that happens as children repeat the family karmic behaviour patterns, beliefs and attitude.

grandfather son  fatherMeeting the Energy This Full Moon continues the journey to set us free of our past in this lifetime, and the past created by our Ancestors.  This meeting of the Energy is what makes real healing so powerful.  We are always looking to heal our pain, suffering, anger, resentment and rage within us; that may have been triggered by our parents; and; that was triggered by our parents.  So we have a variety of family history.  What is your family history?  Is it rage, of prostitution, of slavery, of low self esteem, of self doubt, of mental problems and of poverty mentality.  What family history do you have?

Dad with a heart of goldAncestors It is important to realise that the ancestors have gone through their own pain and do not want you to take on their pain.  That is why we revere ancestors.  They have walked and lived their journey and their life.  They should know that their suffering, struggles, tears, pain, hardships, and losses was not in vain.  You should not be repeating them.  If you do they are not happy.

Doing a ritual to give back what is not yours to whoever you got it from; can free your life of many things such as addictions, putting on weight and self loathe.  The son realises that the anger was not his anger, it was from his father.  When you give back what is not yours you free your energy.  Asking your ancestors to take back what is theirs is a good thing.  They will take it back as long as you ask them to take it back.  Ancestors do not want to see you suffer and in pain, so they will gladly take away your pain through the ritual.  When we give back what is not ours we give them back their fate and their karma.  It is not yours to take. It never was. 

a mother a grandmother a wife a widow a lady a womanForgiveness Our ancestors seek our forgiveness and we seek their forgiveness.  As we forgive them we release them from their past and we release ourselves from the burden of the family karma.  We give them permission to be free and open our hearts to more love and more love and more love.  The ritual act of forgiveness is a wonderful way to move forward and away from  the negatives in our lives. By forgiving them we forgive ourselves and give ourselves permission to be happy.  Remember this negative emotion or feeling is not yours.  You release it back to the ancestors and free yourself from them and free them too.

Many Roles  A baby girl grows up to be a toddler, an infant, a child, a junior, teenager, young woman, woman, adult woman, mature woman, old woman.  She is a friend, a lady, a woman, a mother, a wife, a sister, a grandmother, an aunt, a niece, a great grandmother, a great great grand mother.

Past Present Future Looking at our past and at our upbringing; we go further to look at our ancestors – our deep past.  In Ancestral Healing past and future are healed in the now. We ask for forgiveness for the past and ask for help.  We move time into the void of past present future.  We are connected in a split second of light and the change happens just as quickly. 

Sessions with Toks If you want a session to help you heal your ancestral tree please call me to book a series of 4 sessions.  Handing back the problem to your ancestor and asking them to release you of the burden is a very powerful exercise to do.

The trauma that befell your grandparents weigh on your heart like lead.  Transformation comes when you hear the ancestors.  They mourn when you carry their burden and rejoice when you receive their gifts.  Dr Dan Booth Cohen.

When the dead are honoured, respected and remembered, and their fate is acknowledged, they are a source of healing and benevolence. When judged, rejected or forgotten, they can cast a shadow on the living.  Rosie Anson, Family Therapist.

Healing Your Relationship with Money

Invocation Blessing

Full Moon in Leo & Sun in Aquarius 3/2/2015

Channelled by Toks Beverley Coker © Toks Coker 2015

Friday 13 Full Moon 2014

I Greet You

With the Light of the Full Moon

Radiating Your MOON SUN Essence

Full Moon in Leo & Sun in Aquarius Vortex

I Greet You

Crystal Matrix[18]

I Greet You

With the Spiralling Vortex of Light

Cascading Celestial Light

Pouring Down on Earth

I Greet You

Glorius Fullness

I Greet You

With the Iridescent Light of the Full Moon

Burning Brightly

Transmuting Your Darkness in the Light

I Greet You

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I Greet You

With Egyptian Goddess of Sirius, Sopdet

Isis Osiris Horus

Sirius Orion Sun

I Greet You

Full Moon Gathering

We Greet You

With the Blessings of the Full Moon

Illuminating Pleasures of Life

Just for You

We Greet You 

Hands of Light

I Greet You

With a Thousand Hands of Light

Celebrating with You

Your One Thousand Shining Gifts

I Greet You

Full Moon in Leo

I Greet You

With the Sparkling Light

Strong Shiny Shimmering

Blazing Your Global Trail

I Greet You

connection

I Greet You

With the Connecting Kiss of Life

Filling You with Embracing Love

Empowering Enlightening Energetic

I Greet You

Rose Quartz Pillar of Light

I Greet You

With the Crystal of Strength

Standing Strong

Illuminating All of You

I Greet You

tea tasting

I Greet You

With the Gift of Friendship

Having High Tea with You

Sharing Lovely Cups of World Tea

I Greet You

Thank you

I Greet You

I Greet You 

I Greet You

Channelled by Toks Beverley Coker for the Full Moon in Leo 3/2/2015

© Toks Coker 2015

Crystal Vortex of Awakening

Numerology of Full Moon in Leo 3/2/2014

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                    Full Moon in Leo 3/2/2014             3+2+2+0+1+4=12        1+2=3

We will be working with the energy of the Number 3 at our Moon Gathering tonight.

2015 INTERNATIONAL YEAR OF LIGHT 2015

I am sharing the following information, which I got from my astrologer friend Carol.  Thank you Carol xxx

  1. VIDEO: A Tour of IYL 2015 (YouTube)    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V5aPkyX7nmI
  2. VIDEO: International Year of Light 2015 Official Trailer (Vimeo)    http://vimeo.com/117005227
  3. International Year of Light website    http://www.light2015.org/Home.html
  4. International Year of Light – Cosmic Light    http://www.light2015.org/Home/CosmicLight.html
  5. Einstein Centenary 1915-2015    http://www.light2015.org/Home/CosmicLight/Einstein-Centenary.html

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New Moon in Aries 30 March 2014

StarSPRING IS HERE StarHAPPY NEW MOON IN ARIES  StarHAPPY MOTHER’S DAY StarHAPPY BIRTHDAY ARIES

Take the challenge to welcome newness in you. Welcome in the new with the sunshine and the brightness coming through the sky.  Time to start new things, move home, make a new decisions and move with it.  Happy New Moon and Sun in Aries 30/4/3/2014 and Happy Mothers Day too.  Spring begins with a smile. This really is a good time to begin something new and do something new.   You may experience double celebrations in your brain as you collate the new energy coming in; knowing that you are worth it; no matter what is happening for you right now in your life. 

StarHAPPY NEW MOON IN ARIES.  StarHAPPY MOTHER’S DAY.  StarHAPPY SPRING DAY.  StarHAPPY BIRTHDAY ARIES

Sunday 30 March 2014 is   New Moon & Sun in Aries     19.45 BST London    Element Fire

BRITISH SUMMER TIME BEGINS (March 30/3/2014 – October 26/10/2014) 

On the Menu we have:

  1. Moon Circle Meditation Moon Circle Evening 30/3/2014      breakfastJanet Moore, Holly Cottage Woking
  2. Invocation Blessing:  Sunday 30 March 2014 is New Moon & Sun in Aries     19.45 BST London    Element Fire  BRITISH SUMMER TIME BEGINS (30 March– 26 October 2014)  HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY
  3. ENERGY OF NOW:  New Moon & Sun in Aries & MOTHER’S DAY
    1. Fire, Red, Ram
    2. Mars:  Difficulties & Tensions in Relationships
    3. Mothers:  What kind of mother do you have?  What kind of mother are you? MOTHER, MUM, MA, MUMMY, MAMA, IYA
    4. MONTH OF APRIL: RELIGIONS ROUND THE WORLD – scroll down to April  2014 Dates of Powerplumscup cakes
  4. HEALING WORDS & QUOTEs: New Moon & Sun in Aries    
  5. ENERGY OF PAST:  REFLECTION OF PAST: previous New Moon and Sun in Aries.
  6. ACTION: New Moon & Sun in Aries
    1. Genius Gathering
    2. An Artist: Mora
    3. Janet Moore: Holly Cottage B&B
  7. Homework

Fire of AriesRed Roses of LoveFire of Aries

Invocation Blessing by Toks Beverley Coker

New Moon in Aries

Sunday 30 March 2014   19.45 BST London    Element Fire

BRITISH SUMMER TIME BEGINS (30 March– 26 October 2014)  HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY

New Beginnings

We Greet You

With the New Moon & Sun in Aries

Embracing Your ‘Newness’ Letting Go Your ‘Oldness’

Illuminating Portal Steps for New Beginnings

We Greet You

Tree touching ToksMora strongly rootedMora strongly rootedTree touching Toks

We Greet You

With the Strong Stand of Mother Earth

Anchoring Your Root to Success

Securing Your Fruitful Flourish

We Greet You

Brown Leather BootsRelaxingBrown Leather Boots

We Greet You

With the Steps that You Take

Courageous Sexy Confident Strong

Bold Dynamic Progressive Compassionate

We Greet You

Restingbeautiful legsLegion of Light FeetTalking to each other[12]

We Greet You

With the Benefit of Various Great Encounters

Conscientiously Classic and Elegant Encounters

Rewarding Passionate Fun Down to Earth Encounters

We Greet You

Purple Heart on PearlsSymbols of Light

We Greet You

With Powerful Symbols of Beauty

Heart Reflections of Pearl Purity and Spiritual Love

Victorious Life Force Adorning Graceful Necklines

We Greet You

Tracy Capindale smiles at youTracy Capindale smiles at youTracy Capindale smiles at youTracy Capindale smiles at you

We Greet You

With the Ray of Sunshine in Your Smile

Blossoming Happy New Beginnings

In the Vortex of Time & No-Time

We Greet You

Tracy, Jacqui, Mora NLP COACHESNatasha and Sam NLP COACHES

We Greet You

With the Gift of Friendships

Sharing Laughter Life Learnings

Imparting Empowering Insights

We Greet You

Red Blue Yello

We Greet You

With the Gift of Red Blue Yellow

Red: DNA Blood Life Force; Blue: Healing Flowing Communication

Yellow: Sunshine Spiritual Empowerment

We Greet You    

laughing Atiti JideLaughter with Sam Gold

We Greet You

With the Gift of Laughter

Releasing Liberating Enriching

On this Most Auspicious of Days

We Greet You

 prayer handsSally-Ann North

We Greet You

With the Gift of Prayer

Invoking Your Desires

In Sacred Contemplation

We Greet You

toks and car and red boas

We Greet You

With the Sexy Flamboyance of Aries

Announcing Your Presence

In the Essence of Your Power

We Greet You

Morag painting 2013

We Greet You

With Your Creative Gift

Painting Your Life with Joy

On the Canvas of Your Wonderful Life

We Greet You

VictoriahorsesVictoria

We Greet You

With the Energy of the Powerful Horse

Instrument of Great Spirit In the Void where Answer Lives

Having Wisdom & Balance in True Power of Your Gifts

We Greet You

Sam Gold smilesMora the painterColin McKay Inner SmileSam Gold smilesMora the painterColin McKay Inner SmileSam Gold smiles

We Greet You

With the Gifts of the Inner Eye

Smiling Third Eye Activation

Receiving & Firing Deep Knowing & Passion

We Greet You

Colin McKay smilesColin McKay smilesColin McKay smilesColin McKay smiles

We Greet You

With Handsome Smiling Energy

Loving Embracing Gentle Respectful

Strong Steady Kind Understanding

We Greet You

Toks and Tree

We Greet You

With the Blessings of Great Spirit

Receiving Your Great Spark of Light

In the Openness of Your Unconscious Mind

We Greet You

nurturing healing energy of mother and child

We Greet You

With the Loving Energy of a True Mother

(Knowing Not All of You Have One)

Eternally Nurturing Healing Protecting You

We Greet You

Red Rose of PassionRed Rose of Beauty

We Greet You

With a Gift from the Universe

Igniting the Flame of Love Within

Holding You in the Light of Greatness

We Greet You

party party party

We Greet You

With the Shining Light of Collaboration

Inspiring Greatness Far and Near

Tree of Life Collaboration

We Greet You

pregnant with lifepregnant

We Greet You

With the Birthing of Newness

Blissfully Creative in Your Manifestation

Birthing a Happy Diamond of Light

We Greet You

Toks looking lovely XLW blessing

We Greet You

We Greet You

We Greet You

Channelled by Toks Beverley Coker for the New Moon in Aries 30/3/2014

Fire of AriesRed Rose of Beauty

Energy of Now: Element Fire, Colour Red

 New Moon & Sun in Aries

Mother’s Day      Spring is here

Sunday 30 March 2014   19.45 BST London    Element Fire

BRITISH SUMMER TIME BEGINS (30 March– 26 October 2014)

PassionSparkling FireThe Element for Aries is FIRE for passion, movement, moving upwards, heat, intensity, confidence, courage, exchange, show, magnificence, brilliance, illuminating, showing. 

The colour for Aries is RED for passion, DNA, blood, life force, dynamic action, protection, healing, fire, beauty, sexuality, intensity, fire, adventure, dance and living actively.  You can have a red face from alcohol, rage or embarrassment.

ramRam: The Animal Symbol for Aries is the Ram.  The Egyptians associated Aries with the god Amon Ra.  The horn is meant to represent NEW BEGININGS – spring is here – the flowering of the seed is the POTENTIAL of the individual.  Aries is about the individual.  Like Nelson Mandela said in the speech written for him by Mariam Williamson “Let your Light Shine.”

DIFFICULTIES AND TENSIONS in Relationships

Mars is the planet that rules Aries.  Mars is also the Warrior God to the Greeks and Ogun, the Orisha of war to the Nigerians.  It is quick moving like the fire energy, assertive, hot-heated, unafraid of challenges.  This is the ‘Dare me’ energy.  ‘Dare me Mars.’  BOTH THE SUN AND THE MOON ARE IN ARIES – unpredictable behaviour, sudden change, in seconds!!!

Watch your relationships. NEWMOON IN ARIES can be difficult with tensions, fights, disagreements, worries. These may be old beliefs and vows from a former life – a previous incarnation…..a partner… a friend that stops you moving forward … that shouts at you!  It may be difficult to be calm around this time and to maintain harmonious relationships around this time.  

A good thing would be to break your usual routine – especially if you are in a relationship – as it may be a very exhausting and temperamental time in relationships. So if you do not hold hands perhaps you could start to hold hands in your relationship.  Perhaps if you feel like shouting and being cruel or nasty you could take a few deep breathes to calm yourself down or go for a swim or to the gym. Use the energy you receive at this time well.

MOTHER, MUM, MA, MUMMY, MAMA, IYA

What kind of mother do you have? 

What kind of mother are you?

Natural  Some mothers are natural mothers and some mothers are not.Gary & his mother  Not everyone who gives birth to a child likes the child.  Not everyone who is given birth to likes their parents.  Life is indeed a complicated cycle of fragmented souls searching for love, nurturing, validation and support. 

Compare Some mothers are great to their children and some are not. Some mothers give more attention to their children’s friends than to their own children.  Some mothers compare their children to others, and undermine them. Some separate their children by the ‘whispers and lies’ they spin amongst them creating further dysfunction in the family. Some empower their children and help them to believe in themselves. 

Nasty Words Some mothers on Mothers Day will tell their children nasty things and some will not.  Some will be very nice and loving and embracing full of smiles and joy. Some will not!  In the next 4 paragraphs we will use the example of a daughter.

A mother tells her daughter she does not want to see her and she does not want the flowers.  This may happen at the door of the house or over the phone.  What should the child do?  The child can put the phone done graciously or have an argument with the mother.  The child can leave the front door of the house and walk back to the bus stop or into their car.  The conversation is over but the pain lingers on both sides or does it?

xxx Iya & Toks - 7.7.03The mother has scored a goal and feels great because she has no idea how to love or how to receive love.  She cannot say anything nice to everyone and she feels she had to attack before she is attacked.  She is always on the defensive and always on the look out for any imagined pain or vilification. She blames her child/ren for her problems and their problems and refuses to see how she may have caused the problem or be part of their issues.  She was a victim and now she is making her child/ren her victim/s and she is the abuser!  She is so jaded she will not move on in her life and stay in this state of Maya for as long as she chooses to. 

The daughter graciously accepts the situation knowing she has done everything in her life and power to honour her mother; and there is nothing she can do anymore but forgive and learn the lesson and move on in her own life.  You cannot live a person’s life and you cannot take on their karma.  The daughter knows in her heart that if anything happens to her mother she has tried and has never stopped loving her mother.   She will feel no guilt, reJANET AND ANN-MARIE = MOTHER AND DAUGHTER = MCMURTRYmorse or resentment because she chooses not to. She will forgive her self and her mother!  She will choose to live a happy life because she deserves a happy life.  She has learnt the lesson of nasty words.  Remember to be kind to each other. 

To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. Lewis B Smedes

Future Event? And the mother?  She regrets her actions and calls her daughter to apologise?  She is happy she did this to her daughter and had a great Mother’s Day!  hahha the story continues ……. What do you think? What do you feel?  What do you hear?  What do your see?

Warrior Energy  New Moon in Aries can bring out the AGGRESSION and wicked hurtful words.  Be vigilant when this happens, like a warrior, a spiritual warrior is never off duty and is always aware noticing ready to act from the sacred space of respect and honouring oneself.  Everyone has their own pain and one cannot fathom another person’s mind.  

Receiving Nothing As mentioned earlier some mothers will receive graciously the gifts from their children with gratitude and love and some will not.  Some will receive nothing and wish they had received something.  And my heart goes out to those mothers who are waiting for their child to call or send a card and they get nothing.  AS well as women without children who long to have a child.  Remember if you have no children you can be a mother to the children you see around you.  You can adapt.  You can sponsor a child in Africa.

mother and sonWomen without Children  Some of the best mothers may be women without any children, i.e. who never had children or ever got pregnant or who lost children in their womb so never birthed a child.   By the magnificent order of the universe you will find that these TURE MOTHERS are good with children and have no bitterness in their hearts because they know the VALUE of a CHILD.  These mothers are the mothers gifting love to the children of the world they see around them who need support, love and understanding.  THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.  Not all TRUE MOTHERS have given birth to a child e.g. adapted mothers, spirit mothers, guiding mothers, step in mothers, etc.  

Mother Swop?  Someone asked me “Would it not be great to swop mothers/ fathers/ children/ brothers/ sisters??” What can I say to that question?  That is a very loaded question I would have to discuss in a private one to one session or write an article about this, as so many things come into play with this question.

Appreciation  Some children will never appreciate what their parents have done till they have children.  How sad is that?  But we all know that you cannot really appreciate someone’s pain if you have not gone through it yourself. 

Biological Vs Non-Biological Mother  Some people do not have biological mothers because they do not know who they are or because they died or abandoned them; or because they were adapted.  Is an adapted mother a better mother than your own biological mother?  What are the qualities of a True Mother? What makes a mother abandon her child in more ways than one?  What makes a child/children abandon their mother in more ways than one?  Where does this fundamental lack of respect / sadness come from?  Where is the fear of intimacy?  We will be working on healing the pain of birthing with your parents; particularly your mother in this meditation.

HEALING WORDS & QUOTEs: New Moon & Sun in Aries    

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To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. Lewis B Smedes

In the middle of every difficulty lies opportunity.  Albert Einstein

Be an opportunity for someone.  Toks Coker

Do not be the prisoner in your life.  Toks Coker

Be thankful for everything you have.

Amethyst Trinity Pyramid shapeENERGY OF PAST New Moon & Sun in Aries 

REFLECTION OF PAST: previous New Moon and Sun in Aries.

New Moon in Aries 2013

New Moon in Aries 2012

New Moon in Aries 2011

New Moon in Aries 2010

ACTION: New Moon & Sun in Aries

Genius Gathering of Fabulous NLP Coaches

With the energy of Newness I thought I would share some contacts I have that may be able to help you too.  I know these lovely beings of light personally and I gladly share their energy on my blog. They all have different things they specialise in. Please feel free to contact any one of them and let them know you came from me.  I am not getting anything for the introduction as this is an energetic sharing and gifting from me on this most auspicious of days New Moon in Aries.  Love Toks xxxx

Tracy CapindaleSam Gold NLP CoachNatasha Valentine smilesMoraJacqui Mann HRVicky

Tracy                    Sam               Natasha            Mora             Jacqui            Vicky

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Toks Coker                 Colin McKay                  Sally-Ann North        

Colin McKay and Sally-Ann North March 2014

  1. Tracy Capindale tcapindale@btinternet.com
  2. Sam Gold www.goldhr.co.uk
  3. Jacqui Mann www.entrepreneurialwomen.co.uk
  4. Mora mojomegari@aol.com
  5. Toks Coker www.handsoflight.co.uk
  6. TRAINER of NLP:  Sally-Ann North  www.sally-annnorth.co.uk
  7. TRAINER on NLP:  Colin McKay www.mindtrainingsystems.com   Colin is a fabulous Certified Trainer of NLP, Certified Trainer of Time Line Therapy™, Certified Trainer of Hypnosis, Clinical Hypnotherapist and is also an Advanced Practitioner of Huna.

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Morag painting 2013

This is my friend, Mora, painting from her heart. 

Feel free to contact her mojomegari@aol.com for her paintings or to commission a painting.   Prices start from £200. Her work is simply amazing.

Thank you Mora for sharing your two paintings ‘Magic Birds’ with the world.

Love Toks xxxx

Holly Cottage, Woking GU220HX    JJanet Moore anet Moore, Holly Cottage B&B

Holly Cottage B&B, Hook Heath Avenue, Woking GU22 0HX www.holly-cot.com/

Stayed for 7 days at the Holly Cottage B&B.  It was a lovely drive from London. Janet Moore was there to greet me personally with a smile.  She took Holly Cottageaccount of my dietary requirements and I had the perfect breakfast for me.  Lovely bed, slept well.  Fabulous heating: I could regulate my own heating in my room to any temperature I wanted.  As I love my room very hot; I was in heaven at Holly Cottage.  It was nice not to be cold: it was perfect.  I loved the water in the shower it was soft and lovely to the skin. I went for morning walks and gentle jogs enjoying the fresh country air. Thank you Janet Moore for your warmth, kindness, wisdom and motherly insight.  Love Toks xxxx

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Home Work

  1. What do you need to start to do?  Do it. Be creative in using your gift in the world.  Be kind.
  2. Call in the Angels of Celebration,  Love, Forgiveness, Expansiveness, Peace, Responsibility and Purification to watch over you this week.  Ask what each will bring to your life and how each will help you in your current situation. 
  3. Call in your Warrior Energy to get things done and to dare to be more than you are.   Call in the energy to learn new things and to polish your life.   
  4. Aries represents the number ONE the sign for LEADERSHIP and power.  Take one action this week that shows your leadership quality at work.  Or activate your Aries quality and take one action a day for 8 days to strengthen your leadership quality. 
  5. Have you read the messages for this energy at this time in your life?  What messages came to you?  Write them down in your journal. 
  6. The energy of Aries is focused on the self and growing the self.  Do exercises that open up and connect you to your Atman / The Soul / Brahman / True Self / Eternal Soul / Universal Soul.

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We Greet You

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StarWith the Golden Circle of Light Protecting You

StarWith the Creator of Time & No Time Allowing Your Time

StarWith the Ladder of Peaceful Ascension to the Glory of You

Creating a Ripple in Your Life in the Sacred Circle of Life

You Are One – You Are ONE – You ARE One

We Greet You – We Greet You  – We Greet You

Happy New Moon in Aries

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Email From a Client to me for Mothers Day. Thank you dear client. Love Toks xx

My Dear Spirit Mother Toks,

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❤ You are a gift from heavens to my life and to this whole world.

Thank you for being an empowering mother and helping me believe in myself.  Your kindly compassionate nature and naturalistically elegant approach have always helped me to love myself and see the greatness in me.

Because of working with you I developed a strong character and wisely loving personality.clip_image003

I am a happy person now who admires her spirit mother and trusts her with her full heart. I am becoming a reflection of you and I am proud of that. clip_image004

Thank you very much for being who you are. Sacred and pure.clip_image005

I love you very much for being who you are as you are

You are coming from the star heavens that shine and shine and shine and shine bright bright bright and magnificent, powerful and always loving. clip_image006

Thank you for always being there for me with your power, love, wisdom, knowledge, support, understanding and strictness no matter what.

Your place in my heart is irreplaceable

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Email from a Client saying thank you for Newsletter.  Thank you dear client.  Love Toks xxx

Thank you Mummy. Thank you and and I send you lots of love, joy and “Happy-Ness”.  xxx xxx x

Feel free to leave a comment below. Thank you. 30/3/2014
With Rainbow Blessings
Love Toks xxxxxx   

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13/1/13 Alchemical Resurrection Blessing

Invocation Blessing for 13/1/13

Alchemical Resurrection of Your True Self Workshop

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We Greet You

With the Energy of 13/1/13

Leadership Sacredness Completion

Transmuting Transforming

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With Dynamic Evolution of Consciousness

Flowing Down the Corridor of Life

Two Fold Paths: Inwards & Outwards

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With Internal & External Focus

Flowing Inwards: Becoming the Self

Flowing Outwards: Being the Self

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Golden Ray of Christ

Beaming Surprise in the Target

Colourful Radiance with Solid Foundation

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With a Rainbow Auric Field of Protection

Colourful Diamond Light Sparkling

Breathing Within & Outside You

We Greet You

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We Greet You

Expressing Your Self

Announcing Your Truth

Alchemical Resurrection

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With Sekmet Courage

Communicating Your Truth

Holding the Renaissance Flame

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the African Elders

Dancing Earth Spirit Dance

Grounding Your Success

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Number 13

Holy Number of Strength

Abundance & Wealthy Wisdom

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Alchemical Amethyst Scull

Activating Your Pituitary & Pineal Gland

Helping Make Decision with Wisdom

We Greet You

Alchemical Writing

We Greet You

With the Law of Attraction

Bring You Blessings

Living Your Truth

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Eyes of Healing

With the Voice of Wisdom

With the Heart of Love

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Truth of Trust

The Trust of Truth

Truth and Trust

We Greet You

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We Greet You

We Greet You

We Greet You

Invocation Blessing Channelled on 13/1/13 by Toks Beverley Coker for 13/1/13

Alchemical Resurrection of Your True Self

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New Moon in Capricorn 11/1/13

Invocation Blessing for New Moon in Capricorn 11/1/13

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We Greet You

With the New Moon in Capricorn

First New Moon in 2013

Holding a Smile for You

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Sound of Movement

Stirring New Beginnings

In the Island of Your Soul

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Star of Bethlehem

Announcing Good News

In the Portal of Your Mind

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Alchemical Sound of Music

Alchemically Tuning & Strumming

Resonating Your Inner Auric Note

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With Rainbow Lights

Bringing Care to the World

Living Energy of Affection

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With Practical Isis

Taking Action to Completion

Achieving Impossible Tasks

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Inca Masters

Dancing Under the New Moon

Vision Quest Communication

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Entire Universe

Moulding Your Pain Out

Shaping Your Essence to Light

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With a Firm Vision

Holding a Positive Mission

In the Anointment of Your Goal

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Golden Eagle

Giving You Wings to Fly

With Guardians of the Sacred Temple

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Sacred Torch Bearers

Lighting the Holy Entrance

To the Sword of Truth

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Turkish Kasikci Diamond

My Favourite Diamond

Radiating From My Third Eye

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With Green Grand Meadows

Gloriously Surrounding You

Earthing Your Strength

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With Mary Magdalene

Lady of Compassion

Maintaining Your True Self

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Portal of Newness

Holding a Crystal Wand

Representing Your Integrity

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Angel of Creativity

Opening the Door with Ease

For Your Creations to Flow

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the God of Work

Giving You Work

For Your Life

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Venus

Anchoring Your Energy of Love

Into Your Heart

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With Codes of Spiritual Conduct

Guiding Your Essence

Empowering Your Work

We Greet You

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We Greet You

We Greet You

We Greet You

Invocation Blessing Channelled  by Toks Beverley Coker for New Moon in Capricorn 11/1/13

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