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ECLIPSE Full Moon in Libra 23 March 2016

Red heartFull Moon in Libra – Sun in Aries      Red heartPink Moon       Red heartActual Time: 12:02 BST (12:02pm) London 

  Red heartElement – Air/Fire    Red heartPENUMBRAL LUNAR ECLIPSE in Asia, Australia, Pacific, Western Americas 

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Energy of Now: Eclipse Full Moon in Libra and Sun in Aries

gi brideBalance  One of the hardest things in life is to balance your Fire Energy (Aries) with your Air Energy (Libra).  Libra wants to balance and Aries wants to lead.  With the pushy energy of Aries it is really hard to find balance, the greatest need in Libra.  Finding it hard to balance your thinking with your practical is a challenge around this time.  Be extra cautious and patient with yourself and others.

Inner and Outer Challenges So you decide that you want to balance things and you want to lead at the same time.  And sometimes you realise that you cannot balance and lead at the same time.  You stress yourself out as you try to balance and lead your life.  Then you find that, in your interactions with others, as you try to balance and lead, there is friction.  The other does not think you can lead and wants to lead.  You think thy cannot lead and you should lead.  Sometimes the desire to lead and balance at the same time can lead to stress, lack of trust, shouting, as well as, writing texts and emails that do not convey what your heart really seeks.  The Energy of Libra seeks balance, which is peace of mind.  The Energy of Aries confronts and wants to argue and shout and rant.  What you find ensuing is dis-cord, misunderstanding, annoyance, impatience, separation, the very things you do not want and the situations you do not crave for. 

animal totem and human totemAnimal Totems  This unfolding in your life is powerful magic.  You can work with the Energy of the Horse or the Crow.  Both have great power to move things.  Both have great magic that transforms and helps you in your transition/s as you transform.  Both animal totems help with releasing and renewing. Both initiate endings and beginnings which can be quick or slow.  I believe this energy is quite fast and it happens without giving your any warning or time to prepare. 

Spring   This is the beginning of Spring.  The uprooting and chaos has led to a tiny bud coming out of the Earth.  This is Spring Time.  This is the celebration of the New with the clearing of the Old and the blooming manifestation of your successes.

Past Energy  You can read up on the previous energy by clicking on: 2015 Full Moon in Libra. 

Time Between Eclipses The Time Between Eclipses is a time of conflict and breakups.  The need to be balanced and calm is a a real challenge around this time. You hear someone say something, and, you know you should not say anything; but something ‘grips’ you, and suddenly your ego goes into play, and you say, and do something, that you thought would be helpful and supportive; only to have the very person you are trying to help (from your ego) turn on you.  What ensures is back biting, psychic attack, verbal attack, nastiness and bitterness. 

thinkingFamily Karma  The Time Between Eclipses brings with it a lot of family karma, family issues, family fights and family challenges.  It also breeds breakups and separation.  This family karma seeps into every area of your life.  You may find yourself breaking up; and repeating a pattern of a member of your family.  You may suddenly realise you have a trait you do  not like and you want to change.  You are facing challenges in your family you do not want to look at. You feel tired, drained, exhausted and exasperated. Your fall ill. You are not balanced.  You give up. You give in. You let go. 

Change  Change is the name of the game with this Eclipse – it invites in gentle change in an aggressive way!  So what am I saying?  It invites in aggression even when you are gentle!  Now that is the catch.  How do you maintain your cool and balance when someone is shouting at you?  I breath in and go within and find the still calm space within me that grows lovely flowers and has lovely green rich grass. What do you do?  Please do not tell me you grab the neck of the person! 

What is the Magic?  The magic is staying calm no matter what.  The magic is watching your behaviour as well as the others around you. The magic is recognising your patterns and there’s.  The magic is not being drawn into the drama – yours or there’s. The magic is staying grounded and focused like the horse.  The magic is removing yourself form the unhealthy situation like the Crow.  Now this does not mean you are weak.  It means you are like the Porcupine who pretends to play dead to fool it’s enemy and the runs away when the energy goes.  Now that is smart.

researchThe Blossoming  This Full Moon asks us to blossom our victories no matter how small.  My victory was creating one minute videos and sharing them on my YouTube channel.  I felt so proud.  It was one of the things I had said I wanted to do and with all the chaos around me I suddenly found this inner stillness that guided me to produce and deliver four one minute talks.  I am celebrating my little small big win. I have posted 4 short one minute videos on YouTube. They are: Time Between Eclipses, Impossible Moments, the Colour Red, Numerology Workshops.  It is the first time I have done this myself and I am very proud of myself. It is one of my lovely achievements I am celebrating this Full Moon. What will you be celebrating this Full Moon?  Come celebrate with me tonight. It would be so good to have you with me. 

Seeing  This Eclipse is a time to see what needs to be seen.  It is a time to reveal what has been hidden.  It is a time of contrasts. It is a time of endings and beginnings. It is a time of openings and closing.  It is a time of hunger and fullness.  It is a time of consciously being aware and consciously being unaware. It is a time of unconsciously being aware and unconsciously being unaware.  Did that confuse you?  It did me for a while.  This Eclipse does not suffer fools. Period.  It is like it ‘throws up’.  It is like it creates an upheaval and dis-comfort both internally and externally. 

Choices  I have found this Energy to be slow and then fast. It does not allow me to make choices or decisions easily. It seems to stall me and then after a while give me an answer.  Also the Energy seems to be blocking a way of thinking.  This is not surprising as we are in the Vortex of an Eclipse and we have been journeying between two Eclipses.  This is why all this is extremely overwhelming and powerful at the same time.

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Spring Equinox 2016

Spring Equinox is about balancing good and evil, light and dark, up and down.  It is a time to put a SPRING in your step and clean your house.  Tidy up your home, your environment, your accounts, your life. I cleansed my home as we had a new kitchen put in.  The dust was simply amazing. It took days to clean the flat.

Back to work – I have taken the write up on the Spring Equinox from two of my friends: Chloe and Mariam.  They both sum it up in a way that is so nice, different and apt. Both very informative and powerful. 

Thank you Chloe:

"Last night I lost the world and gained the Universe." – C. Joybell C.
 
This Equinox is between two eclipses which makes for flexibility and creativity as a path forwards. It is extremely important to release old patterns to leave space for a rebirthing to happen. Weeding, spring cleaning and preparation for new growth are traditional themes at this time of year. They are more important than ever emotionally and mentally as well as physically, together with  reinforcing our spiritual practice.

By letting go of old patterns, we have the opportunity to find our true path which has the potential to be more fulfilling than we can imagine. Resisting this opportunity will be more uncomfortable than ever as home truths are not going to go away, and, the feeling of being stuck, unhappy and in chaos will persist. We need to look at several key issues. Is our choice of career right and are we happy? Are we content with our lives generally? If not, what can we do differently? Are we still holding on to negative beliefs? Are we forgiving? Are we being true to our values? Am I using my "voice"?

Creativity in all its forms can lead us to clarity and our "voice" without forcing results. There is a combination of an adventurous spirit, risk taking and being assertive available to us. Because Spring can be seductive and dreamy, there is an element of have fun but stay grounded, especially as this is such an important turning point collectively and individually. A sense of humour over timing is vital as we deal with passion and spontaneity on one hand and being aware of how we effect others on the other.

Some of the above is very familiar but we are running out of time. Finding a balance between lightness of spirit and boundaries can be challenging together with that sense of watching our back. Meditation on our feet can support us, together with being part of a community. More than anything, enjoy the journey …      Chloe   http://www.tiegsolus.moonfruit.com/

Thank you Marian Rose:

….and now we’re flowing into the season of Spring (the Wood Element), I find myself in a wooden house surrounded by trees!    …. Liver, the Yin organ of the Wood Element.

The Wood Element embodies the qualities of Spring, which is all about rebirth, blossoming, rejuvenation.  We’ve moved from Winter’s deep contracting Yin energy into Spring’s expansion and newly flourishing Yang energy.  I’m loving the way the first wild flowers are rising out of the earth, the first buds of the orange blossom flowering, and the jasmine perfuming the air.

So, the Wood Element in nature is all about smoothly flowing, upward rising ,expansive, sensual, creative energy.    When we human earth walkers are in alignment, our life force energy or (Qi) flows smoothly through channels (or meridians) keeping us physically healthy but also keeping our emotions flowing smoothly….  The Liver in Chinese Medicine is the vital Yin organ whose main responsibility is to keep all the cogs oiled, aka keep the Qi flowing.  Its a bit like the clever system of water channels, called asequia’s that they use here in this area of Spain to ensure that every last tree and crop receives enough water.   But if the little drainage channels get clogged up with fallen oranges, olive twigs and general foliage, the water gets stuck and so the trees can’t be nourished and grow.    Just as in our beautiful bodies, if the Liver gets clogged up, Qi gets stuck in our channels and it can’t move the Blood to nourish the organs, nor can it help us to move through stagnant emotions.

The Liver plays a vital role for women too, in that it helps us create abundant menstrual Blood, and helps it to flow regularly and comfortably.  The Liver helps us also to flow easily through the different stages of our female life cycle.  Healthy Liver energy contributes to a vibrant, creative menopause or ‘Second Spring’, as it is so beautifully and wisely called in Chinese Medicine.  A happy Wood element promotes the flow of sexual energy, keeping it transforming, vital and sensual.  ….the Spring Equinox, a special time of equal light and darkness, so of perfectly balanced yang and yin.  Marian Rose, newsletter to me.  taotreasures@gmail.com

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Invocation Blessing for the Eclipse Full Moon in Libra

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With the Eclipse – Equinox – Eclipse Energy

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With Your Magnetic Energy

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Perfectly Balanced Inside and Outside You

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With the Cleansing of the Total Solar Eclipse

The Green Budding of the Spring Equinox

The Shifts of this Partial Lunar Eclipse

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With the Balance of Life

Creating Softness and Hardness of Life

In the Wonderful Melting Pot of You

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With Jupiter and the Lunar Eclipse Full Moon

Dancing the Dance of Light and Dark

Healing Real Relationship Rifts and Transforming Negative Patterns

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With the Illumined Compassionate Mind

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Confidently  Finding Issues   Showing Solutions

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With the Energy of Pure Power

Allowing You to Stand Strong

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With Your Financial Blueprint

Loving and Feeling Good about Money

Making Friends with Money: Money Your Friend

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Connecting and Living Your Radiating Divine Essence

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Living with Compassionate Joyful Happy Hearts

Filled with Great Communication Respect and Love

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With Your Physical Blueprint

Celebrating Longevity Strength Rootedness

Doing Practical Actions with Great Results

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With a Sacred Site Activation (Chichin Itza)

Observing Your Ritual Sacred Altar

Celebrating Your Ceremonial Sacred Space

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Anointing You with Great Blessings

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Channelled by Toks Beverley Coker for the Eclipse Full Moon on 23 March 2016

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Quotes

  1. Fall in love with people who inspire you to love yourself.
  2. Fall in love with yourself.
  3. Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows.
  4. Sometimes you mind needs more time to accept what your heart already knows.
  5. "If one wishes to secure happiness and peace for all people, one cannot help but turn one’s attention to social change. Transforming this troubled saha world in which we live into the Land of Tranquil Light( a Buddha land) is the true essence of ‘establishing the correct teaching for the peace of the land" (Daisaku Ikeda: AOL, April 2016, pg. 12)
  6. Be the change that you wish to see in the world. Gandhi

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Homework

The theme of today’s homework is:  If you want to change anything in your physical world you have to work on all the other areas of your life – your emotional, mental and spiritual world. Here are some exercises that will help you.

  1. How would your life change if you got what you really wanted?  Write it down.  Close your eyes and really feel it, see it, taste it, hear it, speak it, touch it, smell it.
  2. What would you have to change so you could get what you wanted in your life?
  3. What are the reasons you give yourself for being out of balance?
  4. What do I need to hear when I am feeling confused? alone? undecided? angry? not trusted? not trusting? 
  5. What makes me stand out? 
  6. TO BE HAPPY:  What do I need to know today?  What do I need to do today?  What do I need to think today?  What do I need to see today?  What do I need to say today?  What do I need to touch today?  What do I need to hear today? What do I need to feel today?
  7. How can you change your financial future? One way is visualising having more money.  Another is monitoring and being mindful how you practically spend your money. Do you need to buy lunch and coffee every day? All this adds up to thousands of pound in the year!  Do you really need to buy and pay for this item, car, house, etc.?  Would it be better to save the money for something you truly want?  What do you really want?  What is the root cause of your lack of money?
  8. How can you change your intimate relationship in the future?  One way is to have discussions and communicate with each other.  Another is to say empowering and loving works to each other on a daily basis.  What is the root cause of your lack of an intimate relationship?
  9. How can you change your spiritual future?  One way is to attend the Alchemical Moon Gatherings with Toks.  Another is to start looking at the spiritual value each action you do, brings to your life.  Get clear on your spiritual goals and what they will mean to you. What is the root cause of your lack of a spiritual life?
  10. Are you willing to do what it takes to get what you want?  To do so you need to first know what you want and why you want it.  Here is an example: So if you know you want a new house, you have to know why you want it. List 10 reasons why you want a new house:
      1. I will have more space: to move around in, to store my things in, to have extra bedrooms so people can spend the night, to have space for my office, an area to play and relax, a working space for workshops.
      2. Inside Rooms:  an office, a master bedroom with ensuite bathroom/toilet, a meditation space for groups, a healing room, a study area, a library area, a storage space, a laundry room, 
      3. Outside space:  a garden, two garages, a lawn and picnic area, a pool
      4. Other things you want to add:
  11. After we celebrate all our blooming and blossoming and what we have achieved this ECLIPSE FULL MOON, we have to prepare ourselves for more learning and we have to look at different ways of doing things.  We need to learn new things to change e.g. look at different new ways to make more profit or have a healthier relationship.  What do you need to learn? 
  12. It is very important to find yourself with this Full Moon and in your personal reflections.  You can call back your fragmented parts home to you.  You can break ties that bind in a negative way.  You can clear out the old out-dated way of being.  You clear out the baggage and make room for a new way of being, a new way of learning and a new way of doing things.  If something does not work stop doing it.  Learn another way to do it.  What do you need to let go of so you can create space for something more?
  13. I believe that change comes from the invisible and from the visible.  In our Moon Gatherings we see the visible and invisible changes in the people.  Some loose weight. Some develop more self confidence.  Some get married.  Some feel strong enough to leave their jobs and / or partner.  Some move on to create an empire. These hidden and revealed aspects help to change people.  If they believe life is difficult life is difficult.  If they believe life is easy then life is easy. BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU WANT.

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    6. I have posted 4 short one minute videos on YouTube. They are: Time Between Eclipses, Impossible Moments, the Colour Red, Numerology Workshops

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        Teaching and Group Work

        Every New Moon and Full Moon I teach, invoke and share knowledge gained with the you and the world. Click on this link to find all the dates and put them in your diary:https://tokscoker.wordpress.com/diary-dates/

        The Gathering of People who come to my meditation, classes and workshops are supportive, warm and real.  There are many Benefits of Meditation.  Click here to read more: Harvard Neuroscientist on Meditation

        I give free Distant Healing / Remote Viewing on the day of the New Moon and Full Moon to those who ask. Put all your HEALING REQUESTS on my Hands of Light Healing Fan Page.  You can leave a comment there anytime you want; and you can post under the healing posts your feelings and thoughts.  All posts should be respectful, and loving to everyone reading the healing page.  Thank you for your kind consideration and for LIKING   http://www.facebook.com/handsoflighthealing.

        As a qualified teacher and practitioner I teach Indian Head Massage, Crystal Healing, Spiritual Healing and Happiness.  I teach EFT, Positive EFT, and Emotrance.  I will be teaching some aspects of the Tao philosophy, Fusion of the Five Elements: Forming the Pakuas and Pearl, Cosmic Fusion: Fusion of the Eight Forces, Fusion of the Eight Psychic Channels: Opening and Sealing Psychics Channels. Iron Shirt Chi Kung 1: Rooting Cosmic Internal Energy, Cosmic Sounds: Sounds that Heal, Cosmic Inner Smile: Smiling Heals the Body, Tan Tien Chi Kung: Empty Force, Perineum Power and the Second Brain, Cosmic Orbit: Connect the Cosmos to Inner Orbit, Lesser Kan and Li: Enlightenment and Birth of the Immortal Fetus, Tao Yin and Healing Love.

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        I offer private and confidential 1:1 sessions that cover a variety of topics and life issues.  I do various types of intuitive spiritual readings and channelling in my work.  I am qualified in various modalities (e.g. Life Coaching, Spiritual Coaching, Time Line Therapy, NLP, Healing Massage and more) so I am capable of serving with integrity and power.  Allow me to help you and support you.

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      With Celestial Blessings and Love Toks xxxxxxx

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      Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn 16 /01/14

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      HAPPY FULL MOON in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn 16.1.14

      We are 16 days into the new year. How fast the days are moving.  Are you feeling this too?  If you are feeling overwrought with emotions and feel your home is a box of volatile emotions waiting to erupt you know you are being influenced by this Full Moon in Cancer and the solar flares that have been happening above us.  Even if you are in relationship you may feel uncontrollable emotions ready to erupt at the drop of a pin with feelings of aloneness, loneliness and self doubt.  You may try to rationalise your feelings with the influence of practical Capricorn but you know this is just an unsteady train at the moment …one end emotional and the other end practical…. How do you merge these two extreme feelings? 

      Let us look at the Energy of Now…. For more details and to book this crystal healing workshop, click here: https://fullmooncancer160114.eventbrite.co.uk/

      On the Menu we have: (there is a lot to cover)

      1. Invocation Blessing for Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn    Thursday 16 January 2014   
      2. ENERGY OF NOW 2014: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn    Thursday 16 January 2014    04:53 GMT London     Element Water/Earth
        1. What are the problems you have child?peridot cross
        2. Dreams and Failureavocado salad
        3. Dreams and Success
        4. What are Paradigms
        5. Habitual Routine
        6. What influences our paradigms
        7. How do I change my paradigm
          1. Effort from you
          2. Awakening Activation
          3. Write your new paradigm
          4. What others think
          5. Believers who see greatness in you
          6. Healing Heart
          7. Do the work
          8. Changing Friends
          9. Changing Mind Set – Stop doing something’s, Excuses,
          10. Self Talk
          11. Prison of the mind
          12. Just change
        8. Exercise to Change your Mind Set
      3. ENERGY PAST: Full Moon in Cancer 2012  https://tokscoker.wordpress.com/?s=full+moon+in+cancerFISH
      4. ENERGY FUTURE:  YEAR OF THE HORSE
        1. Exercise to Call in Your Horse
        2. Animal TotemAvocado Roll
      5. QUOTEs: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn 
      6. Two BOOKS TO TREASURE
      7. ACTION: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn   
        1. JENNY RODRIGUEZ
      8. What will be covered in this Meditation Workshop?
        1. Crystals for sale
        2. What will we cover this year 2014
      9. Homework
      10. Testimonials from last meditation: New Moon & Sun in Capricorn 1/1/2014

      For more details and to book this workshop click here: https://fullmooncancer160114.eventbrite.co.uk/ The groups are small intimate groups. Let me know you are coming by calling, texting or emailing me.  Also, if you can, please bring something to share e.g. salad, vegetarian, fruits. No pork please. See you. Thank you.

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        Invocation Blessing: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn   

      Thursday 16 January 2014    04:53 GMT London     Element Water/Earth

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      We Greet You

      With the Energy of Playfulness

      Inviting You to Dance

      The Sacredness of Your Life

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      We Greet You

      With the Energy of Receiving

      Gracefully What is Yours

      Yours by Divine Right

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      With the Energy of Sea Goddess Yemaya, Mami Wata

      Moving & Shifting Emotional Drainage

      Replacing with Creative Life Force

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      With a Loving  Relationship

      In the Comfort of Your Home

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      With the Your Greatness of Being

      A Pinnacle of Recognition

      Excellent In All that You Do

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      With Sacred Gatherings

      Receiving Divine Abundance

      Surrounded by Supportive People

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      With the Angel Owl of Wisdom

      Seeing All At Once

      Alerting You to Any Danger

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      With Healing Crystals

      Blessed by Christ Consciousness

      Bringing Healing & Loving Relationships

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      With Splendid Direction

      Crystal Pillars of Strength & Power

      Grounded Secure in Your Heart

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      With the Angels of Light

      Anchoring Divine Intelligence

      In All Your Actions

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      With Healing Apophollite

      Swimming in the Clearing Clusters

      Creating a Lightness of Being

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      We Greet You

      With the Skulls of Magic

      Activating Will Power

      Helping You In One Area of Your Life

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      Channelled by Toks Beverly Coker for this luxurious Full Moon in Cancer 16/1/2014

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      ENERGY OF NOW: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn   

      Thursday 16 January 2014    04:53 GMT London     Element Water/Earth

      What are the problems you have my child?  The old wise beautiful crone asked.

      That is the question we all want answered by a magic wand or by easy words of encouragement that let the problem go awAkshai and brother swimmingay.! 

      Greed, anger and stupidity are the 3 great evils that befall man say the Buddhists.  These 3 great evils affect our relationship we have with people, money, sex, work and addictions like smoking or weight problems.  

      Are you swimming with ease and joy in your life or are you drowning in your emotions with this Full Moon in Cancer?  This is quite a question to cover in a blog.  It takes a lifetime to cover and live these answers, with all the process involved in healing our pain and YemanjaBLworry.

      Dreams and Failure

      Your dream is inside you no matter how much failure you have experienced.   Please remember that. Your failure has shown you what did not work.   Congratulate yourself on the learning from your failure.  Remember failure is just saying “That did not work.”  It is not saying “You do not work.”  Being overwhelmed by your failures, doubts and indecisions can make you feel like you are drowning in a wild perilous sea. 

      Dreams and Success

      Your dream is inside you no matter how much success you have experienced in other areas of your life. Your successes show you what has worked in your life. It says “This idea / action worked.”  Can it be repeated again or shall we do something different?  It says “This works.”  Do you keep doing it for now or for always?  This energy may make you question your successes as well!  This is the time to really celebrate your success and the dreams you have made a reality.  Why not list a few now just so that you know you have had some dreams come true.  Well Done

      What are Paradigms?

      Amathyst Rose Gold FlowerThe Full Moon makes us look at the energy of paradigms and the effect it may be having on our emotions.  All year we will be working with paradigms to help move and shift us to where we really want to be.  When you look at the picture of the pendant how has that affected your state: feelings, mind, body?

      A paradigm is a mental program that controls our habitual behaviour.  We all have multiple habits which we carry out unconsciously in our daily lives.  We all live on different habitual paradigms on a daily basis e.g. different ways of getting up from bed in the  mornings, different ways of behaving in the office, on a date or in a meeting.  These paradigms are habitual routines in our subconscious mind we are living in our conscious mindBelow are examples of habitual routines.  Which ones apply to you?

      Habitual Routine

      1. What habits have you got in your morning routine? You wake up with a routine.  What is your routine every morning when you wake up?  How do you wake up in the morning? Do you jump out of bed immediately or do you take a while or a very long time to get out of bed?   What do you do? What do you do first?  What do you do next, then next, then next?  What time do you get up?  Do you shower, brush your teeth or shave first? Are your grumpy?  cosy bed
      2. What habits have you got at work?  Are you always late for work?  Are you early for work?  Do you go immediately to make a cup of tea or coffee?  Do you say the same words to your co-workers?  What do you do?
      3. What habits have you got when you get back home? Do you put on the TV immediately? Do you take off your shoes first and then wash your hands before you enter your home?  Do you throw your clothes on the floor?  Do you grab a beer?
      4. What habits have you got when you go out on a date? Do you look at everyone around you ignoring your date? Do you drink too much?  Do you have one night stands?  Are you very attentive and jealous of anyone looking at your date?  Do you fart?
      5. What habits have you got in your intimate relationships? Do you pick your nose?   Are you unfaithful?  Do you hold hands when you walk in public?  Do you buy each other little gifts?  Do you still ‘date’ each other even though you have been going out for a while? 

      What influences our Paradigms?

      We are influenced by our environment such as our family up bringing, social, economic and political environment.  We are influenced by TV, advertising boards on the streets, Obama, Michelle, Oprah (pic from Wikipedia), magazines, newspapers, movies we watch. We are influenced by our friends, neighbours, and strangers we meet. 

      Oprah_Winfrey_with_Barack_and_Michelle_ObamaWikipediaWe are programmed by our life style and the language we are brought up in. A Japanese man can speak like an American because  he lives in America.   A Nigerian man can speak with a posh English accent because he went to a private expensive school in UK. 

      Many people inherit beliefs about black people, Chinese people, Japanese people, Africans and Americans.  What beliefs have you got about ‘foreigners’ in your country? Where you once a ‘foreigner’?   

      This Full Moon is about looking and celebrating areas of work and areas of relationships we have triumphed in.  It is also about looking at the extreme side of life! What influences your thinking in you life at the moment?

      How do I Change My Paradigm?

      Effort from You Changing your paradigms takes effort from YOU. You can get the help through various positive life affirming activities such as attending a workshop, a seminar, and seeing a practitioner like Toks, a Spiritual Life Wisdom Coach.  You can use various alternative methods like mediation, mindfulness, Thai chWater & Rock Earthi, Chi Kung, massage, yoga etc.

      Awakening Activation You can activate your thinking, intuition, perception (how you see the world), will power, authenticity, your real self, your higher self,  your creative faculties, imagination, reason, your judgment, your use of time (be effective with the use of your time), your effectiveness, your productivity, your logic, and happy self with your paradigm shift.  It is easy when you work on it like water flowing over the rocks as in this picture. But you must work on yourself continually.

      Write your New Paradigm  One of the things you can do to change your paradigm is YOU need to write your new paradigm and get to know yourself. 

      What Others Think My client called me saying he was worried about what his friends would think about the changes in his life…….. He went on of a while and I let him. When he finished and he had let it all out of him I said slowly “Stop worrying about what others think.  Only worry about what you think.  That really is all that matters.”  I went on to say that  “The only person who puts a lid on your income is yourself.” I encouraged him to flow with his life and move with his heart.  After x8 two hours sessions he is on his way to really living his dream and life.  Congratulations young man.  Love Toks xxxx 

      calling in healingBelievers who see greatness in You  Surround yourself with believers who see greatness in yourself even when you do not belief in yourself.  Someone who sees greatness in you is the person who helps you change your paradigm.  Our behaviour is changed automatic when we are surrounded by supportive loving energy.

      Healing Heart Living from your healing heart is living in the future.  The heart activates belief and momentum. Remember do not live from your head because this is mainly about living  in the past.  

      Do the Work  AFTER you attend all these activities and read all the books and attended all the seminars ONLY YOU must do the work to keep the new habit in place. No one can do it for you – you are the only one who will keep this new habit active in you.  Changing your paradigm involves taking action and practicing a new  habit constantly till it becomes habitual. You change paradigms with time and effort and repetition of new ideas.  You have to be willing and able to do the necessary work.  Everyday is another opportunity to change your life. Change takes time.  Make the time to make the change you want in your life.  Make a timetable of the new actions in 2014.  This is very Capricorn practical energy making plans and timetables

      Changing Friends You may have to change friends with your  new habits e.g. you choose to no longer take7th 1111 cocaine and binge drink so you stop hanging out with your friends who take drugs and drink.  Be vigilant when you decide to live the life you want to live.  Stopping smoking, losing weight, making more money, being more aware of yourself, activating your spiritual energetic power within you will cause a great personal shift within you and around you. Be prepared to loose some people along the way who may not like to see you so successful and happy. When you change your paradigm your friends may leave you, they may resent your success, let them go. New better friends will come in.

      Changing Mind Set The programme in our mind is controlling our lives.  This is the paradigm.  Stop Doing Some things We do things we do not want to do; and yet we keep doing it!  ‘We cannot stop ourselves’ is the statement we keep telling ourselves or others keep telling us.  Excuses We find one excuse after another for not doing or for doing!  These things we do, when we do not want to do them, keep  producing results we do not want. We keep procrastinating.  We keep saying we will do something and never do it.  We keep saying we will deliver on time and we are always late. Our actions do not match our words.  We know we want to change our mind set but we have no means of doing it. 

      Self Talk YOU SAY: “Success keeps escaping ME.”  We are ALL conditioned to fail or succeed. THE CHOICE IS YOURS.  Most people on welfare benefits stay on welfare benefits and have a generation of this family habit.  Many battered wives stay with their husbands for years; and even if they leave will go back an average of seven times before they find their will power to finally leave an abusive relationship.

      yin yangPrison of the Mind   There are many types of prison.  There is the prison you put yourself in and there is actual prison.  Both prisons have keys that lock you in!  Many people who go to real prisons go back again.  I once worked with a lady who proudly told me her father and brother where in prison and had been in prison many times. She loved telling me stories which I listened to in awe! I had never met a person like that before then!  I was too afraid to tell her my father was a professor and doctor who was invited to royal functions in UK the 1950s. I was so glad she did not ask me what my brothers did; as I would have to to tell her the truth, that one is a surgeon and the other other a charted accountant; each running their own successful business.  I allowed her her Being.  I did not intrude my own private lifestyle or beliefs on her. She said I was a great friend and a great listener.

      Just Change  To change your mind set you need to change your subconscious mind to change your habits in your conscious mind! There are various ways (mentioned above) you can do this depending on the root cause of the problem.

      EXERCISE TO CHANGE YOUR MIND SET LOVELY ROSE

      1. Flower Energy:  Call in the smell of a lovely rose or lavender or lilies.
      2. Skull Energy:  Look at your skull and feel the lightness of your skull.
        1. Look into your skull and feel the inside of your skull.
        2. Look into your skull’s right eye and then look into the left eyeTwo Friends.
        3. Look into the inside of your skull’s  left ear and then into inside the  right ear.
        4. Feel the freedom of lightness in your being as you move inside your skull.
      3. Body Energy:  Now move inside your body.  Your skeletal structure.  Your organs: heart, lungs, kidneys, liver, spleen, etc.  Your blood flow.  Your breathing in and out. 
      4. Shield Energy:  Be aware of any shields, blockages, discomfort around your body.  Knock them down!  Knock any thing that tells you that you cannot achieve or do or afford……All blockages melt away like ice under the sun.  Feel and sense all blockages in the cold ice melt away right now.
      5. Universal Energy:  Now feel yourself connected to everything in the universe.  The rhythm of life is around you and you are living with the rhythm of life.  Do not define it.  Remove this definition e.g. some call it God, Buddha, Allah.  Some call it Nam Myoho Renge Kyo, OM.  Just flow with the energy and choose to do anything that you want.  Sense yourself as invisible like air and ONE.
      6. Invocation Energy:   Feel yourself develop a strong urge to change your paradigm and create owla new life and a new you.  Anything you want is already here.  Get in harmony with what you are wanting.  See the Tree in your Heart – your wishing Tree – giving you what you want – connecting to it to give you want you are wanting.  In this relaxed state you can connect to what you want.  You are becoming lighter and you can see clearer and your mind is getting confident, and stronger and happier.  You are powerful and you unlock  the power in you, your DNA, your breathe of life, you power of beyond, and you need no approval to BE.  You know and you know and you know. This power is deep within you, flowing into your consciousness. Activate your infinite power from your cells, your flow of blood, your inner breathe.  (Be aware of the exercise no. 3).
      7. Physical Energy:  When you open your eyes you will feel tremendous energy move through you.  You live the way you know you can live not the way someone else wants you to live.  You feel the power  of the energy flowing through you.  Your mind is sharp.  Feel a power in you that is yours and feel a smile in your body. 

      ENERGY PAST: previous Full Moon in Cancer 2012 

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      ENERGY OF THE FUTURE: HORSE ENERGY

      CHINESE NEW YEAR OF THE HORSE

      The year of the Horse is the time to make very strong effort to improve yourself.  To be more than you have ever been. 

      EXERCISE TO CALL IN YOUR HORSE

        1. Close you eyes and call in the energy of the Horse.  Note the colour of your horse: a White Horse, a Gold Horse, A Red Horse, A Green Horse, A Silver Horse, A Green Horse, A Blue Horse?flaming horse
        2. Observe the horse slowly and watch it move and dance and jump freely in the field.
        3. Call the horse to you respectfully and gently yet firmly. 
        4. Look deep into the eyes of the horse and send love into the eyes of your horse and feel your horse sending love to your eyes too.
        5. Now invite in the quality of the Horse that you will be working with this year.  Feel the horse whispering to you and talking to you.  Feel the magic message from the horse. Receive the messages.
        6. Please remember to write down the messages you received from your horse so you do not forget the messages after the exercise. Gr8 work.

        ANIMAL TOTEM – HORSE

        horse energyHorse is energetic, beautiful, confident, can be showy and precise.  Horse will help  you battle a ‘war’ and will lead  you to peace. A Horse can be ferocious as well as gentle.  Horse is warm, loving, intelligent, and powerful.  Use the horse energy when you need help and protection and you are going on a long joumetal horserney or an adventure or shamanic retreat or vision quest.  Horse energy is good luck energy bringing good fortune and love to ones home.  Horses like to play and mix with others.  Call on the horse energy to pray to the cosmic galactic energy of the Spirit and Soul!  Really awaken to the beauty of you with this energy. 

        HOMEWORK: What other stories or insights or Gods/Goddess do you know that work with the horse energy?  Please post below.  Thank you.

        QUOTEs: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn

        Full Moon in Cancer with Sun in Capricorn energy likes tradition.  I have chosen quotes from people who hold great family tradition and great work ethics.  Cancer is emotional family.  Capricorn is practical work.   All these quotes vibrate with the Energy of Now. 

        • The way you help heal the world is, you start with your own family. Mother Teresa
        • Be the Change you want to see in your life. Ghandi
        • To be able to shape your future, you have to be willing and able to change your paradigm. Joel Barker  
        • Any idea that is held in the mind, that is emphasised, that is either feared or revered, will begin at once to cloth itself in the most convenient and appropriate form available.  Andrew Carnegie

        Two Books to Treasure

        I am sharing two fabulous books that eco  the energy of this full moon.  Most of you may know them already.  Have you read them recently?  If not then read them again.  The Two Books to Treasure are Paradigms by Joel Barker and Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.

        ACTION: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn

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        Or spending the evening in a more relaxed way. A romantic evening.  A relaxing evening in a candle lit room.  A soak in the bath. A glass of wine to soothe and reward yourself.  A lovely soft duvet to sleep under. Or a meet-up with friends to have a lovely meal and catch-up?  Full Moon in Cancer wants to celebrate you.    

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          What will be covered in this Meditation Workshop?

        We will cover all the above exercises and more…..

        We will have lots of lovely crystals for sale to help you with the Energy of Now – how you are feeling now in your life and what you need to help you in the future and for what you are wanting e.g. new baby, new home, healing, peace, safety, protection, etc.

        What will we cover this year 2014

        This year 2014 we will decree your future with the New Moon and Full Moon Mediation Workshops.  We will work together to change your paradigm.  You will build a happy life, a supportive happy relationship, a successful business and we will make a lot happen together. We will make a decision to do something and we will do it. You will realise that you are an ordinary person doing extraordinary things. 

        1. Every New Moon and Full Moon we will have fabulous crystals for sale to help you on your journey. If you see a crystal  you want on this blog just email me and I will let you know the price.  You will have to pay for postage.
        2. Each meditation will carry 2 CPD points.  Build up your points here.
        3. Pay in advance for 4 moon meditation workshops and receive the fifth one free.  5 for the price of 4!

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        Homework

        Andrew Carnegie gave Napoleon Hill homework.  He asked him to commit to saying everyday morning and evening for 30 days:  “Andrew Carnegie, I’m not only going to equal your achievements in life, but I’m going to challenge you at the post and pass you at the grandstand.”   Andrew Carnegie was training him to believe in himself – when you believe it then it will happen. Andrew was saying  IF I CAN DO IT YOU CAN DO IT.

        30 DAYS CHALLENGE  

        1. Choose a crystal (e.g. an apophollite cluster, a wand, a directional point, a pyramid, a tumble stone) to help you with this process.
        2. Work on one thing e.g. your time management – master the management of my activities. How will that affect your income, your health, your relationship?
        3. What you are doing is working on the limits you are imposing on yourself.  You are creating a breakthrough.  You are working on informing the old  habits that you are doing things you do not like to do!  You are changing your paradigm. 
        4. Choose someone you resonate with and say: “…………………., I’m not only going to equal your achievements in life, but I’m going to challenge you at the post and pass you at the grandstand.”   Affirm this for every day morning and evening for the next 30 days.
        5. Affirm every day morning and evening: I am going to change my paradigm and the change will be huge and permanent. I am going to change my time management within the next 30 days or sooner.
        6. Statements of fact: 
          1. I am so happy now that ……I no longer….
          2. I am so happy now that I am winning in the following area/s of my life………………..

        HORSE ENERGY:

          1. Read the notes above on Horse Energy. 
          2. Do the healing exercise above. EXERCISE TO CALL IN YOUR HORSE.
          3. What other stories or insights or Gods/Goddess do you know that work with the horse energy?  Please post below.  Thank you.

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        Testimonials: New Moon and Sun in Capricorn 1/1/2014

        This is the first time I’ve met Toks Coker and done her class.  It was really a very intYuung Yuung, Indra, Mariaeresting and energetically moving class. I feel I have a greater clarity to start my New Year 2014 and look forward to making this year a very successful joyful year for me and all the people I meet on my journey.  Thank you Toks.  Indira Raj-Guru

        Great session helping us to let of of any 2013 energies that no longer helps us.  More importantly, it was great to acknowledge and anchor lessons / blessings for 2013 and the 2014 vision.  Beautiful, loving and nurturing energy throughout the session. Toks was amazing holding the space and leading us through this journey.   Powerful mediation anchoring the new year’s energies that we ant to bring in our lives.  Thank you very much.  Maria Fotiou

        The session is enlightening and very helpful. Yummy Yummy Yap

        Feel free to leave a comment below. Thank you.

        With Rainbow Blessings

        Love Toks xxxxxx

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